My fiance and I both want a non-traditional wedding ceremony, without the procession. The ceremony and reception will be held at an restaurant in NYC. I’ve read somewhere we could have our guests stand in a circle around us with a small wedding. However, we are inviting about 50+ people and am not sure if this could still work with this many people. Do you have any thoughts on this or any other alternative ideas to a non processional wedding? -Dorothy
As those who’ve read Offbeat Bride know, I loves me some circles, and of course it’s only fitting that I’d be all for couples trading in the aisle approach for circle time. Doing your wedding in the round is a great symbol (you start your wedding inside a ring!) and also a nice way to avoid the hierarchy of rows of seats, and skip the aisle completely.
As you can see from the picture here (from Vania’s Island celebration), you can make some pretty big circles with lots of guests. That said, if you’re in a smaller enclosed space, I can imagine it could get kinda tight.
In that case, I would vote for two circles around you — a seated inner circle, and a standing outer circle around the chairs. It still means you have to split your guests into two tiers, but that’s better than rows. Making some of your guests stand wouldn’t work for a long ceremony, but it’s good encouragement to keep things short ‘n’ sweet.
If you need some inspiration about how it might look, check out this post:
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