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OPEN THREAD: are you wearing a special wedding night outfit?

At a Glance

“Do I need to buy wedding night PJs?” popped in my head. What on earth do I buy? I hate sleeping in nothing, definitely won’t be sleeping in the pretty underwear either. Do I go comfy or silk nightgown?” Oh, wedding night lingerie. Do you really need to wear anything special on your wedding night? Absolutely not. But if you’re a more theatrical type and you WANT to wear something special, there are certainly plenty of options…

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We have a full DIY tutorial for these wedding night underwear.
The random thought of “Do I need to buy wedding night PJs?” popped in my head. What on earth do I buy? I hate sleeping in nothing, definitely won’t be sleeping in the pretty underwear either. Do I go comfy or silk nightgown? -Charlotte

Oh, wedding night lingerie. Do you really need to wear anything special on your wedding night? Absolutely not. But if you’re a more theatrical type and you WANT to wear something special, there are certainly plenty of options…

DIY undies

We have the full tutorial for those I (like to) DO (it) undies up there. You can learn how to make ’em yourself, right here.

Geeky underwear

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Yep, you can go the full geeky with these garters from Etsy seller Voluscious.

Theatrical

Simply sexy. Simply comfortable. These simple yet irresistible Edwardian bloomers are made of soft 100% cotton fabric with a comfortable elastic waist. The ruffled hem has an elastic band, delicate lace trim and bows on the side. Wear with our matching camisole or a sexy white corset for vintage chic.

If you want to go the full dress up, of course there are options like these Edwardian Bloomers… they manage to be a bit fantastical without feeling too, well, porny. (Not that there’s anything wrong with porny knickers! We just like a little variety in our dress-up….)

Super sexy

Undressed by Starkers Corsetry seen on Offbeat Bride

If you DO want to go more traditionally seductive for your wedding night, longtime Offbeat Bride sponsor has recently started making THUPER THEXY bra and panty sets as part of their Undressed line. The staff of Offbeat Bride may or may not be acting as guinea pigs for new designs. They may or may not be developing a pair of underwear called The Ariel.

Comfortable

Bride pajamas as seen on Offbeat Bride

Yeah, there are a million personalized wedding pajamas out there, but these are perhaps the most straight-forward and super comfy.

Unicorn onesie

Unicorn onesie as seen on Offbeat Brideir?t=offbeatbride 20&l=li3&o=1&a=B016GJ96T4

Dude, why not?

Naked

Are you wearing a special wedding night outfit? As seen on @offbeatbride #wedding #weddingnight
Photo by VY Intimate Photography

Yep, that’s a great option too!

These are just a few of the options we’ve seen out there… what are YOU wearing on your wedding night? Bonus points for sharing a link!

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