How to choose and apply your own false eyelashes

Guest post by Lauren

Lauren was helpful enough to clue us makeup-challenged people in on how to apply one's own false lashes. She also gives us a hand-dandy rundown on what eyelash styles are best for whatever look you're going for, price-based eyelash choices, AND she gives us answers to questions like “does it matter what color mascara I use?” and “do I apply my make-up or eyelashes first?”

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What false eyelash styles give what eye effect:

  • Spikes (like what I'm using), gives a retro, wide-eyed cutie look. Kinda like Twiggy, but more doll-like.
  • Criss-crosses give a natural glam effect. Nice wide eyes, but not super heavy.
  • Dense/full lashes give a retro look like Twiggy.
  • Angles/sweeps give a cat-eye effect. Of course, angles/sweeps are often combined with other styles (often criss-cross, spikes and dense), so you get two looks.
  • Natural/sparse lashes give a very natural look, they just add some fullness.
  • Wisps give a glam look, a little heavy.

And length is EVERYTHING. The longer the length, the more glam and heavy your lashes will appear. The length of my lashes are medium length (longer than my natural lashes, but not super long). At the end of this post I'll post examples of each style.

Tools and products needed:

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  • Your favourite mascara. NEEDS to be black. Not brown or brown-black. BLACK black. I am using MAC's Haute & Naughty Mascara.
  • Eyelash curler. Mine is just some cheap Revlon brand one, but whatever you have is fine.
  • False eyelashes, measured and trimmed. These are some cheap ones (retails for about $5 CAD/box of 10). I'll list some other brands I use and like… High quality lash brands: MAC, Makeup Forever. Above average quality lash brands: Eyemimo, Quo (please note Quo is a Canada only product…but you might be able to find it online). Average/drugstore quality lash brands: Ardell.
  • Eyelash glue. Please note that most eyelash glue contains latex. So if you have an allergy, you'll need to probably order a latex-free glue. DUO is the best brand for glue. It comes in transparent (what I have pictured), and black. I recommend you get transparent.
  • OPTIONAL. Old crappy tweezers. These are tweezers from Tweezerman. I stress the “old and crappy part” because glue will get on your tweezers, and it causes them to dull over time. Just make sure the tweezers can pick up and hold onto the lash. I own two sets of tweezers, one for plucking eyebrows and such, and one for doing my eyelashes. Please note this product is optional… but I'll get to that later.

Step #1:

fake eyelash application 2 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)Apply your eyemakeup as normal. But DO NOT apply mascara or curl your eyelashes. Here is my eye makeup before lashes. Notice I have eye shadow and eyeliner on.

TIP: While eye shadow is not ever necessary when applying false eyelashes, eyeliner is. Eyeliner helps break the gap between your natural lash line and your false lash line. Even if you do apply your false lashes correctly, and they are as close to your natural lash line as possible without actually being ON your natural lashes, there is still a small noticeable gap/difference. Eyeliner helps fill in the gap (no matter how tiny), and creates a more solid line/effect.

Step #2:

fake eyelash application 3 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)It is now time to choose your lashes and trim them. I've already shown you the pair I'm using.

To trim your lashes, place the lash along your natural lash line, then mark with your finger where you need to cut. Cut the lashes at your marked place with scissors. This is kind of an eyeballing step, so make sure you double check. You don't want your lashes too short. You want to be able to comfortably wear your lashes without either end of the lash stabbing either corner of your eye.

TIP: As for which end to trim from, if you are using an angle/sweep style, trim from the end with the shortest hairs. If it's any other lash, trim from the longer end. The picture above is a comparison of a lash before and after trimming. Please note that not all lashes need trimming… that's why we measure.

Step #3:

fake eyelash application 4 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)We are now going to put a line of glue on our non-dominant hand. This is to dip the lashes in. Many tutorials will say just to pipe glue directly onto the lash, but I find this method is more controlled, because the other way I get waaaay too much glue.

Step #4:

fake eyelash application 5 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)Dip one lash into the glue carefully.

TIP: This is where I begin using my tweezers. Many people just use their fingers, but I find my fingers get in the way too much, and I have more control with the tweezers. Keep in mind, I said the tweezers are optional. If you find you can't use tweezers, then don't. I'm just showing how I do mine because I find it works best.

Using your dominant hand (as your non-dominant one has the glue on it), pinch the middle of the lash with the tweezers and carefully and slowly dip it in the glue, dip a little extra on each corner. If you have too much, you can always wipe it off and start again.

fake eyelash application 6 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)This is what your lash should look like after you've dipped it in the glue.

Step #5:

Wait for the glue to get tacky, then apply to your eyelid. Waiting time is about 30 seconds to 1 minute.

TIP: I usually do 30 seconds, then give the glue a couple of blows to make it extra tacky. The more tacky your glue is, the better it will adhere to your eye when you first apply it. You know if your glue is tacky if it isn't as shiny anymore/appears to be more transluscent/looks more solid in areas. DON'T TOUCH THE GLUE TO CHECK. You'll just have to reapply more glue, and it gets messy.

Close your eye lightly (like you're stretching your eyelid), and slowly place the eyelash on your eyelid, as close to your natural lash as you can. If you apply too far away or on your lashes, just remove and start again. If you do accidentally apply it to your real lashes and don't notice (I've done it), removing your lashes will hurt a lot and you risk pulling out some of your real eyelashes.

TIP: I use tweezers to apply lashes, and I apply my lash starting in the middle of my eye. Again, other tutorials will tell you to use your fingers, and start from the outward corner and work in, but this is what is easiest for me. If you find it's easiest to start outwards and work inwards… then by all means do it!

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Step #6:

Now we just use the tweezers to press down all edges of the lash and hold for it to adhere. Make sure you spend extra time on the corners because those lift the easiest (also why we use a little more glue on the corners). Once the lash can adhere to your eyelid without you holding it in place with the tweezers, use your fingers to press it firmly into place.

TIP: You should open and close your eye a few times during this process. The first reason is because sometimes, we think the lash is adhered, but as soon as we open our eye, the lash peels off in a corner. This is because our eyelid stretches into a different shape ever-so-slightly when we have our eyes open as opposed to being closed. The second reason is sometimes glue will leak onto our bottom lid/lashes. We don't want our eyes glued shut! When you open your eye, and you notice there is glue on the bottom of your eye (and you will notice!), just use the tweezers to carefully lift and remove the glue from whereever it is. Use your fingers if it's on your bottom lash (you have a greater risk of plucking out a bottom lash if you use tweezers). Be very careful, because tweezers near your eye is risky business.

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Step #7:

Repeat steps 1-6 for your other eye.

TIP: DO NOT immediately move on to step 8 after step 6. The reason to start to do your other lash, instead of completing your current one is because the glue needs to dry. Yes, it is adhered to your eyelid, but eyelash glue needs an extra few minutes to fully dry. If you move on to step 8 immediately, your current lash will just fall off or move on you because the glue isn't fully dry.

Step #8:

fake eyelash application 9 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)Double check to make sure the glue is fully dry, then apply mascara.

TIP: To make sure glue is fully dry, you won't see any white. The glue will be clear, maybe a bit shiny, but it'll be clear.

Apply mascara like you usually do, but do it more slowly. Again, you don't want to risk dislodging the lash. Work from the base of your natural lashes upwards, trying to get both your natural lashes and the false ones. This is also the time to redo your eyeliner if need be.

TIP: Mascara helps adhere your natural lashes to the false ones, as crimping and curling them together will damage your false lashes. You also might need to do twice as many coats of mascara than you usually do. I usually do about 4 light coats. Also, you might notice some shininess where glue has dried, or you can see the false lash band very clearly. To combat this, reapply your eyeliner. If you are using liquid, you can just use your liquid liner again. If you are using pencil, don't use the pencil. Pencil can lift your lash very easily. So instead, use some eye shadow in the same color as your eyeliner and an angle brush, then just gently tap the eye shadow across the false lash band to restate your liner/hide imperfections.

Step #9:

fake eyelash application 10 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)Adhere lashes together or add extra curl. You need your eyelash curler for this. But you will NOT be curling your lashes, because curling them will ruin your falsies. What you will be doing instead is tapping the curler so it just barely closes. You don't want to apply pressure and pinch. What you're doing is just touching the false lashes to your natural ones, so the mascara can help them bind together. You only need to do this if your natural lashes are fully adhering to the false ones when you applied mascara. This step is a must for girls with crazy straight lashes.

If you are finding your lashes (the false ones) aren't curled enough for you, or stick out too straight, you can curl them now. But do it very carefully, and only do it once. You should pinch/curl your lash at the base. Do it ONLY ONCE and do it very lightly. If you curl it too much (do it more than once or press too hard), your lash will be too curled, and the false lash will be permanently in that shape.

Step #10:

Clean up and finish. This just involves cleaning up any mascara that got on your skin during application, reapplying undereye concealer, etc.


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Comments on How to choose and apply your own false eyelashes

  1. Great tutorial. I would also add individual lashes to the list of those available. Rather than a long strip of lashes, they’re small groupings of about three or four that can be added for a more subtle glamour.

    • I tend to use individuals for my bottom lashes because they don’t do enough for me on the top (I have short straight blonde lashes). They are great if you need some filling!

  2. For people who JUST CAN’T GET THIS (this guy) half lashes or individual lashes are a lovely option. I’ve had so much more success with these. Basically, they just sit from the middle of your eye outward. This puts the fullness on the outsides, like a cat eye look. By applying only to one SIDE of the eye, it’s just a whole lot easier to get everything lined up and stuck.

    I get super frustrated while I’m trying to apply false lashes and it just makes me furious. But even though the process for apply half lashes is the same, the chance for error is so much less.

    • I love half lashes (I didn’t list them because they’re the exact same as fulls…just shorter). They’re great for everyday use and really make the eyes pop. Plus they look a lot more natural.

    • I used half lashes for my wedding. I was determined to use false lashes, but am not coordinated enough for a full strip. They were awesome! This is a great tutorial too – making sure the glue is tacky is a CRUCIAL step. Otherwise? Glue all over your eyeball. As far as glue, I found it easiest to pipe glue onto a Q-tip or toothpick, and then apply it onto the lashes. Worth a try if you need to minimize mess for whatever reason.

  3. This is brilliant! I especially appreciated the info on the adhesive having latex as my lovely other is allergic! Makes sense why her eyes always freaked out when they were applied. How lame I didn’t check that.

  4. I usually go for the full drag queen when I wear lashes, but my wedding ones are quite a bit lighter, sort of spiky naturals. On the glue bit though, I find it’s easier to apply minimal glue by piping it directly on. the hand technique gets too much glue on and then it escapes out from under the thread the lashes are on and gets all messy.
    And keep your lash glue with your lip color and such, touch ups may become necessary.

    • I carry glue with me wherever I go if I’m wearing lashes! Never know when you’ll need a repair job!

      Yeah, the hand technique works best for me as I don’t have a steady enough hand for the piping method. But like I said, whatever works best is what you should do!

  5. I’ve only done false eyelashes once, for prom senior year. I had no idea what length to get so I went for almost-the-longest. Which, as it turned out, meant that they brushed against my glasses every time I blinked. It was annoying, and I ended up ditching the glasses and being mostly blind for prom. Definitely something for the bespectacled to take into consideration!

  6. Awesome!

    I would also add that non-latex glue tends to peel up far, far less than latex glue, particularly if you have watery eyes.

    And? Black lash glue is the bomb.

    • Is the non-latex glue harder on your skin,or to take lashes off? I have sensitive skin.

  7. As already said on here, I LOVE singles. You have more control over them and more control how they look in general (just a few or a whole bunch). And they feel better when wearing them. I personally can’t wear a full set, I need singles.

  8. Wow you just totally showed up the bitc# at the store who told me I would NEVER be able to do my own lashes and would have to pay her an insane amount of money to follow me around the entire day of my wedding to fix them for me! Thanks 🙂 I can totally do this.

  9. is it possible to have false lashes with no mascara? i’d like to add a little something but mascara, especially black mascara would feel out of place to me. Any suggestions?

  10. This is really helpful! Could you show us pics of you with the different eyelashes on?

  11. Oh! Oh!

    Another helpful help?

    When you put your lashes on, look DOWN into a hand mirror.
    It makes it easier to get them on your lash line, and it helps keep you from blinking.

  12. THANK YOU – I’ve tried lashes several times with varying degrees of effectiveness but none that I would have considered “successful” enough for my September wedding. I am excited to try this again. this was awesome and the step by step stills is EXACTLY what I needed. You’re the best!!

  13. False eyelashes rock! If you plan to use them for your wedding/similar occasion, practicing using and wearing them is SUPER important. I literally tried (and failed often) wearing mine 1x a week for a few weeks before the wedding. When it came to the day of, I was super nervous and shaky, and I was glad I had practiced because I could still pop them on with minimal stress and messiness/mistakes happening. I also knew when (approximately) I’d need to touch-up with glue on a hot day (plus, it was so much fun to put on fake eyelashes and go run my normal weekend errands…. I felt so fancy buying cat food!).

  14. I have a question. Most eyelash tutorials I see are with people with straight or barely curly eyelashes. I have VERY natural curly eyelashes. I can never seem to get eyelashes on because of it. Can you point me in the direction of a tutorial for putting false lashes on curly eyelashes?

  15. I like this tutorial but for people that don’t know this it isn’t necessary for you to wear eyeliner when using fake eyelashes. I almost never wear eyeliner and I wear fake lashes almost every single day, if your lashes are cheap and the band is super thick you might need it but if you get Ardell lashes you don’t need it. Just needed to say that. For beginners it’s probably easier to start with eyeliner on though 🙂

  16. I haven’t worn fake eyelashes in years! I really should invest in a good pair. As I’ve gotten older, my eyelashes have become more and more sparse. I’ve also heard about more long-term fake eyelashes, they’re almost like implants, I think. Do you know anything about those ?

  17. My eyelashes are very black, so I’m using just a little bit of mascara along with fake lashes. However, I don’t think Mother Nature appreciates our experiments that much ;)) and it’s rather stressful for our natural eyelashes. So I make sure I am loving them enough: light massage of eyelids, a good little brush, only natural serums like Cherish Lush, enough sleep, cold green tea bags on them in the morning… – men would never understand all these neverending processes! :)))

  18. I agree with a girl who expressed her thoughts above, Cherish Lash is a wonderful remedy without the side effects, I grew my eyelashes with its help quite effectively… Better to use all the good products available, and some wisdom helps too! 😉

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