The last day of Kilt Week is a wedding with a freakin' Batmobile!! What more do I even need to say? – Becca
The offbeat bride: Amanda, director of a non-profit arts organization (and Tribe member)
Her offbeat partner: Jeff, magician (!)
Location & date of wedding: Peach Brandy Cottage, Dawsonville, Georgia, — October 3, 2010
What made our wedding offbeat: We did everything our way, down to every last “I went to Jeff and Amanda's wedding and all I got was this lousy button” party favor. We had friends play acoustic '80s music before our ceremony. We were dared to incorporate “Brick House,” and we made $100 bucks by doing it. We borrowed a replica 1960s batmobile for our getaway car.
From the first moment we got engaged, we knew we wanted a venue that could house ALL our peeps, provide simple southern fare, allow us to bring in liquor, oh, and a beautiful atmosphere that wouldn't break the bank. Not too tall an order, right? We found a cozy little farm in the country and I knew it was meant to be when I read the words “party barn” on their website.
My friends were the best support system. In lieu of a wedding party, we asked our friend Olaf to officiate (he was ordained online many years ago and was honored to provide this service to us.) His wife, Fox, my closest friend, is a professional photographer (and pregnant). My mother-in-law did the flowers — sunflowers, my favorite — and they were everywhere. My dear friend from high school is a professional pastry chef, and she SHIPPED the cakes in from Florida the day before and followed by plane (also pregnant).
The Han Solo in Carbonite groom's cake was chocolate with peanut butter buttercream frosting.
We danced our well-choreographed “number” to “When I'm Sixty-four” and box stepped, foxtrotted and tangoed around the room to the amazement of our guests.
Tell us about the ceremony: We had our friends play an all '80s acoustic guitar set for our guests. I entered to “Can't Help Falling In Love” and we departed to the “Cantina Band” from Star Wars.
As we had no church affiliation and were not having a wedding party, the person marrying us needed to be special — and he was. Our official officiant story was detailed very well on my blog by my dear friend Olaf.
Our biggest challenge: With very vocal and involved people on both sides, it was hard, at first, to distinguish constructive criticism from criticism. Those last two weeks before the wedding I had moments when I didn't even recognize myself. Don't be afraid to delegate, but if it is something VERY important, only delegate to someone you trust inherently, or just relax and allow it all to happen as it will. We had a lot of good laughs and, in the end, everything that truly mattered went off without a hitch.
My favorite moment: Seeing my husband for the first time was my favorite moment. We decided to have all of our photographs taken before the guests arrived, and those private moments before anyone got there are very precious to me.
Other magical and unexpected moments included when my dad, a large manly man, started crying while we danced to “Landslide,” and when my grandmother welled up and clutched my hand.
My funniest moment: My mother would say that the Batmobile stole the party. When our “ride” arrived at the farm, there was some buzz and the entire reception clamored to see it. We managed to get people back inside for another hour or so for some frolicking and dancing before the actual departure.
Was there anything you were sure was going to be a total disaster that unexpectedly turned out great? I was surprised how well the divorced families were able to come together and enjoy the weekend. I don't know why I expelled the energy to worry needlessly about it in the first place. We had a small rehearsal dinner at a local Mexican restaurant and there was much general merriment to be had for the duration of our event.
My advice for offbeat brides: Talk about what will make the day important to you and your husband. Have a unified game plan for how to deal with the “nay sayers” that mean well as you try to actualize your vision. The truth of the matter is that your day will be over in a flash and what you want to remember is having a blast, and not that the flowers froze or the swans were sick.
What was the most important lesson you learned from your wedding? A wedding is a party — albeit a really good party with everyone present that is dear to you (and some great outfits) — but at the end of the day it is just another day for a great party. Look forward to the marriage and enjoy the wedding for the special day that it is.
Care to share a few vendor/shopping links?
- Invitations: Seal-n-send invites were a godsend at Ann's Bridal Bargains. Sealing wax that goes in a glue gun from Nostalgic Impressions is a modern marvel.
- Outfits: We both purchased our head-to-toe ensembles online and spent less than a thousand dollars IN TOTAL.
- Kilt tuxedo: An entire kilt tuxedo (hose, shoes and all the do-dads) was found on ebay. Jeff opted to purchase an additional kilt in Hamilton gray to complete his “look.”
- Dress: I found my dress in a boutique, but hated the “boutique” experience, so I wrote down the information and found it at Best Dress Price for a fraction of the cost. I am not ashamed to say it was $189, directly from China, and their customer service was great.
- Shoes: The fabulous shoes from Zappos.com got more accolades than the dress.
- Fascinator/veil combo: Etsy.com.
- Photographer: Celestial Photography
- Cake: Sugar Chef
Enough talk — show me the wedding inspo!
Comments on Amanda & Jeff’s budget, kilted, country wedding
Love the groom’s cake! My Star Wars-nerd husband would have killed for it 🙂
Absolutely beautiful! And the pictures of your grandparents are awesome..what precious pictures to have.
All your details are gorgeous! I really love what you have to say about knowing what’s important to you two. And,thanks for sharing about your Dad, that’s a very touching story.
Also,OMG that batmobile is epic and a fantastic getaway car!
That dress is just beyond fabulous. I love the ruffle details on the top!
You have some top-notch friends.
The BATMOBILE?! No wonder it stole the show!
It did! But what a wonderful day it was for our great kids!
Han: Who’s there?
Leia: Someone who loves you.
Loves that cake and the Batmobile!
Tina would reply but she has fainted at the awesomeness of your wedding. She did mutter the words “buttons, Batmobile” before falling to the floor. No worries, she will revive soon and will probably faint again once she looks at this again. 😉
Thanks Tina, it was an amazing day with an incredible man. I have friends that took many buttons home to their teenager, she still has them on her backpack.
LOVE the wedding…they really did it their way all the way. Love her dress and hair piece, and his kilt- awesome!
ah man! beautiful! My man would DIE for a batmobile get away car! How did you arrange that?
Alexis, I actually book entertainers and specialty acts. I provided the DJ and the Batmobile, and other fun cars, themed events, etc. can be booked through me for special occasions. Feel free to contact me, gotmagic at charter dot net!
Way to work in a plug, hon. I was just going to say that my man has connections, and didn’t want to “get away” in the cavalier. Even if it was clean.
seriously, how many guy’s get away with having a batmobile and a star wars cake!? brilliant
holy smokes! the batmobile!
only the coolest thing i’ve ever seen, ever. it could only be beat by the joker’s beautiful suit, which i have wanted for a very long time.
One of my favorite weddings on here!! Looks alot like mine and im also marrying a jeff and my name is amanda and we love starwars!!
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