2397913235 3734c1c448 m alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)The offbeat bride: Elisa, Secretary/Adjunct Professor/Grad Student cum Rock Star

Her offbeat partner: Evan, Sound Engineer/Guitar Player

Location & date of wedding: Friend's home in Miami, FL. 2/29/2008

What made our wedding offbeat: Evan and I spent the whole day together with our bridal party, bucking tradition. We also had a Pagan handfasting, complete with broom-jumping. The reception was a BBQ buffet with karaoke and a Super Mario Brothers-themed wedding cake.

2398726548 f80f087f17 m alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)Our biggest challenge: With my sister-in-law's wedding two months earlier, many had their opinions on how things just HAD to be done … You can imagine the shrieks when we told them that Evan and I picked out the dress together.

We were the ones paying for it, so everything was taken with a grain of salt. Much of it was kept to ourselves, and we revealed details on a need-to-know basis. That just kept everyone out of our hair.

2398742804 c34c23fe0f m alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)My favorite moment: I loved how absolutely relaxed everything was, including the ceremony. Our high priest encouraged cheers, laughter, and applause from the crowd at regular intervals, and we were smiling the entire time.

My offbeat advice: Relax. It's really only one day, and it should be a reflection of the both of you as a couple. Just have fun — your marriage isn't going to be doomed if you hang out with the groom, show off those tattoos, or don't wear white.

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  1. “…your marriage isn’t going to be doomed if you hang out with the groom, show off those tattoos, or don’t wear white”

    I second that, sister!

  2. Awesome! I love ya’ll spent the day TOGETHER and totally agree that “…your marriage isn’t going to be doomed if you hang out with the groom…”

    BTW. Love the date, too. I got engaged on Feb. 29. Was 18 mo. anniversary.

  3. My fiance and I have been pretty much deciding everything together too, and I keep my bridesmaids updated on plans etc. but really, it’s just the two of us paying for and deciding on everything. Gabriel has seen every dress I’ve considered and I haven’t told anyone, just to keep them off my back. I’m so excited to hear that I’m not the first one to break that stupid rule about not letting the groom see the bride all in white. Virginity indeed! Ha! ;

  4. My groom also helped me pick out a dress, just as I will probably help him pick out a suit. I like his opinion. 🙂 And I don’t go for the “can’t see the bride before” tradition, which was put in place when you didn’t see your bride or groom at all before the wedding!

  5. I find it interesting how many “traditions” stem from the days when a bride was a piece of property, sold by her male relatives to a man who literally paid for her. We’ve evolved past that definition of marriage but we hold on to all kinds of vestigial reminders of it, and I think it’s weird.

  6. What an amazing mantilla veil – I’ve never seen one with such a pretty circular patterned lace. LOVE!!

  7. Thank you, Bluey!

    My mother actually made the veil for me. She took some tulle, took a length of lace, hand-beaded it, and (pardon the pun) married the two together.

    She got the lace at Jo-Ann Fabrics!

  8. Thank god- other people that have picked the dress together. People keep looking at me like I’m a complete freak when they find out we chose it together! And… more shock- its red!
    Congrats Elisa- you look amazing

  9. After I bought my dress, it hung in our wardrobe until we were ready to go. I was honestly surprised when people were surprised that he had seen me in the qipao already.

  10. Well, you should tell your Mom she could start a business:). It looks like it is square or rectangular too, which I also really like. Go Mom!!!

  11. That is the cutest cake I have ever seen!

    And, your dress and veil were beautiful! Your mom did a wonderful job on the veil!

  12. LOVE the mantilla, your mom is super talented!

    And my guy has seen “The Dress” as well. I wanted to make sure it was something he liked too! 🙂

  13. You guys “rock” my name is elisa also and I am also pagan… small world.. Good luck in your wonderful life together! blessed be

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