Wedding at Maset Antonia olive farm on Offbeat Wed 55 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

Love is not just a feeling, but a devoted practice: Wedding reading & vows for folks who get attachment theory

We recently featured Thomas & Julie’s Spanish olive farm wedding, and also wanted to share their profound wedding reading. The reading was adapted from the work of Heidi Priebe and Jillian Turecki, and is extra juicy for folks who understand how our attachment issues play out in adult relationships…

Wedding at Maset Antonia olive farm on Offbeat Wed 59 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

Ever dream of getting married on a Spanish olive farm? (YOU WILL NOW!)

Who needs a wedding arch when you have a rare black moon and a Spanish olive farm so remote, it’s basically its own country? This couple replaced standard vows with a safe harbor commitment to everyone in their lives, then served paella cooked on a fire before everyone started beating up an olive-shaped piñata under the stars.

citrus wedding theme 4 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

This Montreal citrus theme wedding had private vows and a family-style meal

Emily Anne and Alex turned their Casa d’Italia wedding in Montreal into a joy-drenched feast. Picture vintage orange damask, citrus everywhere, and dinner served family-style like a sprawling Italian banquet. Their tango first dance lit up the room before dessert arrived via a walking cannoli bar… and when the fire alarm cut things short, everyone hit a karaoke bar instead.

Queer halloween wedding inspiration 22 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

Celebrate Halloween with this spooky glitter drag wedding inspo

This isn’t your typical wedding profile…it’s pure queer eye candy! House of Touché took over a queer-owned farm for a Halloween drag spectacular filled with glitter beards, sequined gowns, smoke bombs, and joy that cracked right through the makeup. Think spooky, glittery, theatrical energy instead of tradition, and a reminder that all weddings are performance art.

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