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Unique gay and lesbian cake toppers

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Unhappy truth: It’s hard to find an abundance of gay-friendly and/or gender neutral wedding stuff. From advice, to porn, to products our gender-bending, same-sex loving friends constantly get the shaft. We got a request for advice on where to find same-sex cake toppers, so I thought I’d show you some of the ones I’ve found over the years.

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Look at all these customizable lesbian cake topper options from Custom Laser Studio

Unhappy truth: It’s hard to find an abundance of gay-friendly and/or gender-neutral wedding stuff. Our gender-bending, same-sex-loving friends constantly get the shaft. Recently, we got a request for advice on where to find same-sex cake toppers, so I thought I’d show you some of the ones I’ve found over the years…

51e865+KmtL. SS500Weddingstar is an interesting company. They’re the ones that brought us some of the most barf-tastic and insulting cake toppers, but they’re also one of only companies that make a bride-in-a-suit topper and sell their mini-people in separates, like this bride, and the more casual groom in grey.

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Gay unicorn cake toppers on Etsy. Photo by Wild About You Photography
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Lesbian cake topper from Etsy seller Custom Laser Studio

How much do we love that this cake topper has two brides in suits? And then there’s this one, with two high-fiving brides:

high fiving lesbian cake topper

 

And then of course there’s this “Finally Mr & Mr” gay cake topper.
finally mr and mr cake topper

But maybe you don’t want that laser-cut vibe. Maybe you want cute little sculptures. BEHOLD!

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Adorably nerdy gay cake toppers from World Cake Topper

 

gay dinosaur cake toppers
When you also really love dinosaurs…. GAY DINOSAURS!

 

 

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STAAAAHP. How cute are these little bear grooms?

Does anyone else out there have advice on where to find good gay and lesbian cake toppers? If so, leave ’em in the comments.

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