Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 30 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
Photos by Sam Starns Adventure Elopement Photographer

The Offbeat Couple: Anim (they/them) & Mariah (they/them)

Date & Location: 09/12/2024, Jedediah Smith Redwoods, California

When Anim and Mariah set out to plan their wedding, they had one goal: to celebrate their love without worrying about people-pleasing or judgment. As they explained, “We want an event where we can focus on each other, ourselves, the moment, and whatever we want/feel like, in a more fantasy, almost fairy-like setting, because… cheesy as this sounds… it really feels like a fantasy dream come true.”

And honestly? That is exactly what they created.

A first look with a twist

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 7 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

Typically, the partner wearing the gown approaches the other for a first look, but as a nonbinary couple, Anim and Mariah do things their own way. Mariah waited as Anim revealed their wedding look (which included floral details that Anim embroidered on their jacket!), and the reaction? Pure magic. Awestruck by each other, they soaked in the moment before setting off on an adventure deep into the towering redwoods of Northern California.

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 8 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 32 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

Their ceremony took place at Damnation Creek Trailhead (yes, the name is metal as hell). They exchanged vows in the midst of the ancient giants.

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 20 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

They held hands, took in the calm, and made a ritual of marking the exact moment they became newlyweds. No distractions… just the two of them, their love, and the trees standing witness. Their officiant, Sam Starns, guided them through a deeply personal ceremony.

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A hobbit-worthy picnic in the woods

These two are self-proclaimed Tolkien nerds, fae dreamers, and fantasy lovers. Their elopement wouldn’t have been complete without a Middle Earth-inspired feast. After exploring the redwoods (and admiring some oversized slugs along the way), they made their way to Templeman Grove, where a perfectly curated woodland picnic awaited them.

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 33 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 40 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

As they approached, the soft sounds of the Shire soundtrack filled the air, setting the scene for their fairytale meal. Their setup, beautifully planned by Beyond the Sorrel, blended celestial and hobbit-core aesthetics, featuring hand-painted starry candles, vintage goblets, and (because it wouldn’t be an authentic hobbit spread without them) potatoes. (If you know, you know!)

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 38 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

They feasted on an assortment of goodies from CC’s Diner and Ice Cream, a 1950s-style diner in Crescent City. Instead of committing to a single entree, they embraced their “mood eater” status and opted for a little bit of everything. They finished with a hot fudge sundae instead of a traditional wedding cake.

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 39 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

Swords, stars, and coastal cliffs

If you thought this wedding couldn’t get more epic, just wait. There were swords. Anim and Mariah wielded their blades throughout the day, fully embodying the fantasy warrior aesthetic.

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Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 6 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

Anim’s suit, from Vardo, was the perfect balance of dramatic and elegant, with hand-embroidered floral details on their shoes by HanEmbroiders.

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Meanwhile, Mariah’s ethereal dress from Desert Moon Bridal, was pretty much the ultimate expression of the day's enchanted forest vibes.

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 17 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

To complete the look, Mariah’s hair was adorned with a stunning piece by Avigail Adam, and her custom Converse from CustomConversDesigns brought just the right touch of whimsy. Their hair and makeup, skillfully done by Emma Randall Hair and Southern Oregon Makeup Artistry, tied everything together flawlessly.

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 4 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

After soaking in the redwoods, the pair ventured to the coastline for blue-hour portraits. Standing on the cliffs overlooking the Pacific, lanterns in hand, they held each other close as the sun dipped below the horizon. With the waves crashing below and the sky shifting into twilight, it was the perfect ending to a day that felt like stepping straight into a storybook.

Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 54 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
Hobbit Picnic Wedding by Sam Starns on Offbeat Wed 52 alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

A love story written in the stars

Anim and Mariah are more than partners. They see themselves as the same soul in two bodies. Their wedding was a reflection of everything they love: fantasy, adventure, the magic of nature, and most importantly, each other. Oh, and in case you’re wondering… yes, Anim changed their last name.

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