Joy Story

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Woman-Owned Neurodivergent-Owned

About Joy Story

Think you’re awkward in photos? Excellent. Most of my couples tell me exactly the same thing.

I’m Sarah, the photographer behind Joy Story Photography, a Glasgow wedding photography business for people who want fun, colourful, natural photographs without spending half their wedding day posing for them.

I’ve been photographing weddings since 2012 and I’ve heard every variation of “we’re terrible in front of a camera” going. You don’t need to know where to put your hands. You don’t need to practise your smile. You definitely don’t need to be more photogenic, cooler or more wedding-y before you enquire.

That’s my job.

I’m very good at getting people comfortable around me. Mostly this involves chatting a lot until you forget there’s a camera pointing at you. I’ll give you direction when you need it, leave you alone when you don’t and make sure the photos still look beaut even if you felt a wee bit awkward while I was taking them (and the awk feels don’t last – trust me).

The goal is photographs that make you look at each other and say “holy shit, that’s us.”

A wedding photographer who’s ridiculously useful

After hundreds of weddings, I’ve accumulated a frankly unnecessary amount of wedding knowledge.

I’ll help you work out timings, recommend brilliant Glasgow and Scottish wedding suppliers, tell you which confetti to buy, remind you that the sun sets ridiculously early in Scotland in winter and arrive with an emergency kit containing things you won’t realise you need until somebody suddenly needs them.

I’m extremely organised, I even read my emails and reply to them. A ground-breaking business model, I know.

I also know when to get out of the way. Your wedding isn’t a photoshoot with a ceremony inconveniently happening in the middle of it. I want you with your people, eating your dinner, having conversations, laughing at whatever nonsense your pals are up to and enjoying the wedding you spent all that time planning.

Who is Joy Story for?

You don’t need an alternative wedding. Wear a black dress. Wear a white dress. WEAR NO DRESS. Get married in a pub, a castle, your garden or halfway up a Scottish hill. Keep every wedding tradition you love and ignore every one you don’t.

I care much more about who you are than what your wedding looks like.

Joy Story is for good humans who want their wedding to feel like them and want everyone they love to feel welcome there. Whoever you are, whoever you love and whatever your family looks like, you are welcome here. You won’t have to wonder whether I’m going to get weird about it.

Why Joy Story?

Because after the planning, the money, the spreadsheets, and the approximately nine million decisions involved in getting married, I want you to see your photographs and think:

We were so happy.

Look at everyone we love.
Look how much fun we had.
Look at us.

This was so worth it.

That’s why I photograph weddings.

Joy Story Photography is based in Glasgow, Scotland, photographing weddings across Glasgow and Scotland.

If you’ve been looking through my photos thinking “but we’re nowhere near that comfortable in front of a camera”, come say hi, because those people thought that too.

Services Offered

I photograph weddings for people who want to spend their wedding actually enjoying it, not disappearing for hours to pose for photos.

I specialise in camera-shy, “we’re so awkward and not photogenic” humans, using a wee bit of direction and a lot of chat to create fun, colourful, natural photographs where you still look like YOU.

Full-day wedding photography includes two photographers, a pre-wedding shoot (to get rid of some of those camera nerves), help planning a timeline that gives you maximum time with your favourite people, and 500+ photos capturing everything from the big emotional stuff to the absolute dancefloor carnage.

Based in Glasgow and photographing weddings across Scotland, I’ve shot 400+ weddings since 2012 – so you’re also getting a very organised extra pal who knows when to step in, when to help and, most importantly, when to get out the bloody way.

Service Area

Joy Story Photography is based in Glasgow, Scotland, and Glasgow weddings are very much my home turf. I regularly photograph weddings across Glasgow, Loch Lomond, Argyll, Stirlingshire, Perthshire and the Central Belt, as well as further north into the Scottish Highlands and Glencoe for the right wedding.

I especially love Glasgow city weddings, relaxed celebrations close to home, and outdoor Scottish weddings surrounded by lochs, mountains and ridiculous scenery. I’ve photographed weddings and elopements around Loch Lomond, Glencoe, Loch Voil, Loch Venachar, Balquhidder, Dunkeld and Loch Awe, so I’m very familiar with making Scotland – including its occasionally unhinged weather – work for photos.

I’m intentionally Scotland-focused rather than a destination wedding photographer. Keeping things local matters to me environmentally, and I don’t take weddings that require flying abroad. Basically: Glasgow? Absolutely. A beautiful Scottish loch? Yas. The Highlands for something special? Give me the deets. Santorini? There are brilliant photographers already there – hire one of them.

Pricing & Packages

Full-day wedding photography with Joy Story is £2,950, with smaller weddings and shorter coverage available from £425 per hour.

My full-day package is deliberately pretty bloody comprehensive: two photographers, a pre-wedding shoot, help with your photography timeline and planning, 500+ edited images, an online gallery and all the experience that comes from photographing 400+ weddings since 2012.

My pricing is for couples who really value photography but don’t want their wedding to revolve around it. You’re paying for great photos, natch, but also for someone experienced enough to make camera-shy people comfortable, get what we need without taking over your day, anticipate problems and generally make the whole thing easier.

I don’t have a million confusing packages or charge extra because your wedding is a bit unusual. Your wedding being you is rather the point.

★ Offbeat Member Deal

Offbeat Wed pals get £50 print credit with every wedding booking.

Why prints rather than a boring old discount? Because I want your wedding photos to actually exist in your life. On your walls, stuck to the fridge, given to your favourite people – somewhere you’ll stumble across them years from now and remember “fuck, we were happy.”

Whoever you are, whoever you love and however you choose to get married, you’re welcome here. Just mention Offbeat Wed when you enquire and I’ll add the £50 credit to your gallery after your wedding.

High five also included, natch.

Frequently Asked Questions

I don’t think you need an “offbeat” wedding to work with me. You don’t need a black dress, a mountaintop ceremony, a D&D theme or a dog carrying the rings – although I am, obviously, delighted by all of the above.

I photograph weddings for people who want to do things their own way, whatever that looks like. Keep every tradition you love and ignore every one you don’t. Have 150 guests or none. Get married in a Glasgow pub, a castle, beside a loch or somewhere that doesn’t normally host weddings at all.

I’m not there to make your wedding fit a photography formula. I’ll work around your people, your priorities and the kind of day you actually want to have – then photograph the joy that comes out of it.

I specialise in camera-shy couples, people who hate posing and anyone who has ever looked at gorgeous wedding photographs and thought, “yes, but WE could never look like that.” You absolutely can. Most of the people in my portfolio said the same thing.

Joy Story Photography is explicitly LGBTQIA+ inclusive and welcoming of people of all genders, sexualities, ages, ethnicities, abilities, bodies, neurotypes, family structures and relationship structures. I particularly love working with kind, open-minded people who care much more about having a brilliant day with the people they love than performing Wedding™ correctly.

I’ve photographed large weddings, tiny weddings, elopements, outdoor ceremonies, Humanist ceremonies, civil ceremonies and religious and multicultural celebrations across Glasgow and Scotland. I also have extensive experience photographing Scottish outdoor elopements and micro-weddings through my work with my elopement company Wee Wild Weddings.

I’m a Glasgow wedding photographer and these days I’m very deliberately Scotland-focused. I regularly photograph weddings across Glasgow, Loch Lomond, Argyll, Stirlingshire, Perthshire and the Central Belt, with travel further into Glencoe and the Scottish Highlands for the right wedding.

I’ve photographed weddings and elopements around Glasgow, Loch Lomond, Glencoe, Loch Voil, Loch Venachar, Balquhidder, Dunkeld and Loch Awe, and I especially love Glasgow city weddings and outdoor Scottish weddings involving lochs, hills, forests and generally showing people how bloody brilliant Scotland is.

I’m not an international destination wedding photographer and I don’t take weddings that require flying abroad. I’m increasingly passionate about couples hiring brilliant local suppliers where possible, both environmentally and because someone who actually knows an area can be enormously useful.

Basically: Glasgow? Yup. Loch Lomond? Absolutely. Somewhere gorgeous in the Highlands? Tempt me. Santorini? Hire a brilliant Greek photographer and save us both the carbon.

Tell me what you need. Seriously. You are not being difficult.

If you are disabled, neurodivergent, anxious, introverted, have sensory sensitivities or simply know certain parts of wedding photography will be uncomfortable for you, tell me and we’ll work out how photography can fit around you, rather than expecting you to fit around it.

That might mean keeping couple portraits short, scheduling breaks, planning family photographs in advance, choosing quieter locations, avoiding particular kinds of posing or physical contact, changing how I give instructions, allowing more time, or adapting the photography timeline around mobility and energy levels.

I won’t pretend I can automatically meet every access requirement at every venue, but I will listen, plan with you and be upfront about what I can and can’t provide. If something needs coordinated with your venue or another supplier, we can identify that in advance rather than discovering it on the wedding day.

Nice and simple. No weird sales tactics and nobody is going to phone you 14 times because you filled in an enquiry form.

Send me an enquiry with your wedding date and tell me a bit about what you’re planning. If I’m available, I’ll send you all the relevant information and we’ll arrange a relaxed video chat so we can meet, talk through your plans and make sure we actually like each other – fairly important when we’re potentially spending 10+ hours together!

If you’d like to go ahead after that, it’s contract + 25% booking fee = officially booked.

Then I remain very much around. You aren’t booking me and hearing nothing until three weeks before the wedding. I’m available for questions, supplier recommendations, timeline advice and all the random “Sarah, is this a terrible idea?” messages that inevitably appear during wedding planning.

Full-day weddings can book well in advance, particularly popular Saturdays during the Scottish wedding season, so if you’ve found me and you’re already getting the “OH THANK GOD, THIS IS THE PHOTOGRAPHER” feeling, it’s worth checking your date rather than assuming I’ll still be free later.

That said, there is no correct amount of time in advance to book a wedding photographer. I’ve photographed weddings planned years ahead and weddings organised on much shorter timescales. If your wedding is coming up and you’ve only just found me, ask. The worst that’ll happen is I’m already booked.

I intentionally limit the number of full-day weddings I photograph each year, so availability is genuinely limited rather than pretend marketing scarcity.

“How will you make us feel on our wedding day?”

Everyone quite rightly asks photographers about galleries, hours of coverage, backup equipment and how many photos they’ll receive.

But you’re potentially spending 10+ hours with this person on one of the biggest days of your life.

Do you actually like them?

Will they make you feel comfortable when you’re nervous? Will they read the room? Can they get your family photos done without barking orders at everyone? Will they know when you need help – and when you need them to bugger off and let you have a moment?

Photography style matters enormously.

But the person holding the camera affects the photographs too.

Oh god, picking three after 400+ weddings is RUDE, but these sum up the sort of things I love:

A ceremony at the top of Creag an Tuirc in Balquhidder. David and Eliza took their guests on a short, steep hike up to the ancient rallying place of Clan MacLaren to get married overlooking the glen. A wee rain shower rolled through while we were up there – because Scotland – and somehow it made everything even more magical. It wasn’t polished or complicated. It was just a bunch of people on top of a Scottish hill having a brilliant time.

Claire surprising Ziemo by reading her vows in Polish at Monachyle Mhor. The tears started and basically did not stop. Including mine, despite the minor technicality that I don’t speak Polish. Turns out you don’t need a translation to know when someone is saying something that means the absolute world to another person.

A blended-family wedding amongst the stills at RAER Whisky Distillery. Both people were marrying for the second time and had children from their previous marriages. Their youngest did a reading, their two adult children witnessed the marriage certificate, and their celebrant compared their new family to blended whisky: bringing different things together doesn’t dilute what was already there – it brings out new flavours in each of them. Tears again.

Those are the bits I bloody love. Not weddings being perfect. People being people.

My full-day wedding photography package is £2,950, and shorter wedding photography coverage is available from £425 per hour.

The main thing affecting the price is how much of your wedding you want photographed. Full-day coverage is designed for couples who want the whole story – getting ready through to the party – and includes two photographers, a pre-wedding shoot, planning and timeline help, 500+ edited high-resolution photographs, an online gallery and preview images shortly after the wedding.

Having a smaller wedding doesn’t automatically mean you need less photography, and having 150 guests doesn’t mean you need more. It’s the amount of your day you want documented that matters.

Albums, prints and other physical products are optional extras, so you can decide later whether you want them rather than having to choose everything while you’re already haemorrhaging money on wedding deposits.

I don’t think my pricing structure is radically different from every other wedding photographer – and I’m not going to invent something clever here just to sound more offbeat.

The difference is what I’ve chosen to include in the price and what you’re actually paying me for.

You’re not just buying a certain number of hours and 500 photographs. My full-day package includes two experienced photographers and a pre-wedding shoot, because both genuinely make the wedding-day experience better rather than existing as shiny upsells.

You’re also paying for the experience I’ve built from photographing 400+ weddings since 2012: helping you create a realistic timeline, making camera-shy people comfortable, getting family photos done efficiently, knowing when the light is disappearing, spotting problems before they become problems and knowing when to put the camera down and let you enjoy your wedding.

I deliberately photograph a limited number of full-day weddings each year rather than cramming my diary, because I want enough time and brain space to give every couple a properly good service.

So no, I’m not the cheapest wedding photographer in Scotland. I’m also not trying to be.

I want you to hire me because photography matters to you, you want someone you can trust, and you want to spend your wedding having fun rather than managing another supplier.

The words I hear repeatedly are fun, friendly, relaxed, organised, helpful and reassuring – particularly from people who thought they were going to hate having their photograph taken.

And that last bit is important because the language people use before booking me is remarkably consistent:

“We’re quite camera shy.”
“I’m not photogenic.”
“We’re not great with posing.”
“We don’t like posed photos.”
“We’re not comfortable or natural in front of a camera.”

Those are all things real Joy Story couples have told me when enquiring.

Afterwards, the recurring feedback is that I made them feel comfortable, made photography fun and felt more like another pal at the wedding than someone they’d hired to take photographs.

That’s probably the recommendation I’m proudest of.

You don’t need to tell your friends, “Sarah is great if you’re naturally confident and photogenic.”

You tell them: “We hate having our photo taken too. You’ll be absolutely fine with Sarah.”

Stop planning the wedding you’re apparently supposed to have.

Every tradition, detail and Pinterest idea creates another decision, another job and potentially another invoice. Before adding anything, ask yourselves: do we actually care about this?

If the answer is no, then don’t do it!

Spend your time and money on the things that will genuinely affect how your wedding feels: good people, good food, enough time to enjoy yourselves and suppliers you trust to get on with their jobs without needing managed.

And please, listen to experienced suppliers when they’re trying to make your life easier. We’ve collectively seen an alarming number of weddings. If your photographer says your December ceremony time leaves you six minutes of daylight, they’re not trying to ruin your plans. If your venue says something takes longer than you think, they’re probably right.

Choose people you trust, tell them what matters to you, then let them help you.

Your wedding doesn’t need to impress anybody. You just need to come out the other side thinking: That was fun. Can we do it again?

My dream couples are bloody nice people.

That’s genuinely more important to me than what your wedding looks like.

You’re kind, open-minded, non-judgemental and generally pretty grateful that you’ve found a person you love and a bunch of good humans to celebrate with. You want everyone at your wedding to feel welcome. You’re probably more interested in everyone having a brilliant time than whether everything looks “perfect”.

There’s also a suspiciously high chance you’re a bit geeky. My couples seem to love board games, games, films, TV and getting extremely enthusiastic about whatever niche thing they’re currently into. Geeks are my peeps.

You might have been together for yonks. You may own a house, have pets and already feel completely married in every way except the legal bit. Now you’re throwing a massive party to make it official.

Your wedding itself can be colourful and weird or completely traditional. I don’t need you to prove how alternative you are.

Good people having a good time. That’s my niche.

I’ve photographed Humanist, civil, and religious wedding ceremonies, as well as weddings combining different cultures and family traditions. My experience includes Scottish traditions such as handfasting and drinking from the quaich, and I’ve photographed multicultural celebrations including Greek Cypriot, Sikh, Hindu, Muslim, Jewish, Chinese, and Nigerian wedding traditions and couples incorporating their own languages, heritage and family customs into their ceremonies.

I don’t assume I already understand a tradition simply because I’ve photographed something similar before. If something is culturally, religiously or personally important to you, tell me about it. I want to know what is happening, who is important and what absolutely needs documented – and I’m very happy to learn.

The thing that still makes me happiest isn’t really about the photographs.

It’s when people who warned me in their very first enquiry that they were camera shy, awkward, not photogenic, terrible at posing or actively hated having their photograph taken come back afterwards and tell me how comfortable they felt.

I get versions of that worry ALL THE TIME.

And I love that, because it means the thing I’m most proud of isn’t some clever photography trick. It’s creating an atmosphere where people stop worrying about how they look and start having a fucking lovely time.

Then I get to show them what that looked like.

The same words and themes come up again and again: friendly, fun, relaxed, organised, reassuring, helpful and very good at making people feel comfortable in front of a camera.

Couples talk about feeling like I was another pal at the wedding rather than just a supplier, while somehow also being the organised person quietly keeping things moving in the background.

And one of my favourite recurring themes is essentially:

“We hate having our photo taken and Sarah somehow made it fun.”

Which, frankly, I might get tattooed on my forehead.

My couples don’t tend to recommend me by saying “Sarah uses a sophisticated documentary approach to visual storytelling.”

They say some variation of:

“You need Sarah. She’s brilliant. You’ll love her.”

And that’s exactly how I want it.

Yes.

My contracts and client communication use gender-neutral language such as couple, and partner rather than assuming there will be a bride and groom.

More importantly, that carries through to how I actually work. I won’t assume who is wearing a dress or suit, who proposes, who walks down the aisle, whose parents are whose, who gives speeches or which traditional wedding roles apply to you.

You tell me who your people are. I’ll learn their names. Job done.

Additional Information

A few useful things that don’t fit neatly into a box: Joy Story is LGBTQIA+ inclusive and welcoming of all genders, sexualities, cultures, ages, abilities, bodies, family structures and relationship structures. I won’t assume who is wearing what, who is walking down an aisle, who your parents are, or which wedding traditions you’re following – tell me who your people are and we’ll take it from there.

Neurodivergent, anxious, introverted or easily overwhelmed? Tell me what would make this easier. We can keep couple photos short, build in breaks, avoid unnecessary posing, plan group photos in advance, find somewhere quieter when the party gets A LOT, or adapt how I communicate and work with you. You are never being a pain by telling me what you need.

I’ve photographed everything from tiny Scottish elopements with just the couple to big all-day weddings, including outdoor ceremonies, Humanist weddings, blended families, multicultural celebrations, pets enthusiastically involving themselves, unpredictable Scottish weather and plans that have gone spectacularly off-script. I am very difficult to faze.

And one niche speciality I will absolutely claim: Scottish winter wedding logistics. If you’re getting married in December and dreaming of daylight portraits, please talk to me before finalising your timeline. The sun does not care what time you’ve booked dinner. ?

Practical accessibility matters more to me than sticking rigidly to “how wedding photography is normally done”. If you or one of your guests has mobility, sensory, communication or other access requirements that affect the photography, let me know and we’ll plan around the humans involved rather than expecting the humans to fit around the photos.

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Love from Offbeat Couples

Sarah was phenomenal! We came from Canada with not much of a plan for the ceremony. Despite doing everything remotely, we were still able to get to know her through video chats. Her online system also made things incredibly easy, and she communicated with us constantly throughout the process. She was the conductor for the day on top of capturing beautiful pictures of our wedding. The highest compliment I can offer is also that we did not notice her during the ceremony at all, despite there only being 10 people in attendance. She took photos that capture us more authentically, which worked for us since we are awkward in front of a camera.

– Stephanie & Max

Sarah was so fantastic to work with and made our wedding day super stress free. My partner was really nervous about having his photos taken but Sarah made him feel at ease, which meant the photos turned out beautifully. We loved the joy and energy she captured from our ceilidh and the organised and professional way she does the pre-wedding planning. The confetti advice and reminders were so helpful!

– Laurie & Rowan

I absolutely 100% recommend Joy Story! We booked Sarah for our engagement and wedding photos and the experience we had completely exceeded our expectations. Sarah made us feel so comfortable and we LOVE LOVE LOVE the photos! Our families even commented how easy and quick the group photos were at our wedding and Sarah had such amazing energy that the photos came out perfect and you can genuinely see everyone’s personalities. We can’t stop looking at the photos and the hardest decision yet will be deciding which ones to print! Thank you SO SO much for everything Sarah!

– Talia & Insung

We hired Sarah to photograph our wedding. After seeing some of the previews I was thinking that I wished I had more events lined up so we could hire her again. More than anything else she captured the way it felt in the room at the time. The pictures are expressive and fun. She was great for guiding us in how to get the best shots. I couldn’t have asked for better, I’ll recommend her to anyone who needs a photographer & it’s just a shame we don’t have any events coming up as an excuse to book her again.

– David & Hannah

How do you personally identify, and how does that shape how you work with couples?

I’m Scottish, photographer, wife, professional wind-up merchant, and firm believer that people should be allowed to live their lives without other people being dicks about it. I’m also very aware that I’ve been lucky in life. I’m safe, I’m loved, I’ve found my people and I get to make a living doing something I genuinely enjoy. I don’t take that for granted. That probably shapes my work more than any label does. I want people to feel welcome around me. I don’t care whether your relationship, family, body, brain, wedding or life looks like mine. I want to know who you are, what matters to you and what will make you comfortable. There’s enough judgement in the world already. I’m not bringing any more of it to your wedding.

How did you get started as a wedding pro?

My first camera was a Spice Girls Polaroid camera I got for Christmas in 1996, which I maintain was an excellent foundation for a professional photography career. I originally photographed live music, then got married myself and segued into weddings in 2012. It started part-time alongside other work, became increasingly less part-time, and in 2021 I finally quit my day job and went fully self-employed. Somewhere along the way I’ve photographed 400+ weddings, started several other businesses and discovered that apparently I am incapable of having a quiet life. I didn’t grow up dreaming about weddings. I grew up loving photography and people. Weddings turned out to contain an enormous amount of both.

What was the moment you realized you didn't fit into the traditional wedding industry?

I don’t think I had one big dramatic moment where I threw a chair and declared I REJECT THE WEDDING INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX. ? It was more gradual. I realised the weddings I loved photographing most weren’t necessarily the fanciest, coolest or most unusual ones. They were the ones where people were having a brilliant time. And I realised I didn’t particularly care about creating the Perfect Wedding Photograph™ either. I cared about the photo where someone’s laughing so hard their face has gone weird. The parent trying not to cry. The pals absolutely losing it. The couple looking around the room and realising all these people showed up because they love them. Wedding photography can get very caught up in making everything look aspirational. I’m much more interested in making people realise how good their own life already looks.

Describe your aesthetic in three words that have nothing to do with weddings.

Colourful. Nostalgic. Playful. Give me bright colours, 90s nostalgia, ridiculous patterns, something handmade by someone who gives a shit about it, and things that make you smile just because they exist. My first camera was Spice Girls branded. This aesthetic has been brewing for a WHILE.

What's one thing conventional wedding vendors often get wrong, and how do you do it differently?

Making the wedding about the wedding industry. There’s an astonishing amount of you need this, you should do that, this is how it’s supposed to look and here are 47 things you hadn’t previously considered buying. Nah. You don’t owe the wedding industry an impressive wedding. My job isn’t to persuade you to build your day around getting photographs either. Your wedding is not my photoshoot. If I can get the photo in five minutes rather than twenty, brilliant – you get fifteen minutes back with your pals. I’ll absolutely give you advice when my experience can save you hassle. I have OPINIONS about timelines, winter daylight and confetti for days. But the important question is always: Does this matter to you? If yes, brilliant. Let’s make it work. If no? It’s gone.

What's your favorite wedding tradition and why?

CONFETTI. Specifically, loads of colourful paper circle confetti. It’s completely unnecessary, lasts about ten seconds and makes everyone ridiculously happy. What’s not to love? Also, from an entirely selfish photography perspective: paper circles, pals. They float beautifully, they’re colourful, you can get a proper massive handful of them and they look bloody brilliant in photos. Dried petals can be lovely, but if you want the full WE JUST GOT MARRIED!!! explosion, give me paper circles every time.

What wedding tradition or trend do you wish would die and never come back?

Deliberately blurry wedding photos. Sorry. ? A wee bit of intentional motion blur used well? Fine. I’ll even do one or two if you really love them. But deliberately making half your wedding gallery look like the photographer fell over because Instagram has decided blurry photos are cool this year? No thank you. Trends come and go. Your wedding photographs have to live considerably longer than an Instagram trend cycle. I want you to look back at them in 10, 20 or 50 years and remember the people and the joy – not immediately identify which photography fad was having a moment when you got married.

Have you planned your own wedding? How did it change how you work?

Yes! I got married before I became a wedding photographer, and my own wedding was part of what led me into photographing them in 2012. So I know what it’s like to be on the other side of this – spending an alarming amount of money, making approximately 7,000 decisions and trying to work out which things genuinely matter when you’ve never planned a wedding before. I think that’s part of why I’m so practical with my couples now. I don’t expect you to know how long family photos take, when you’ll need daylight, whether your timeline works photographically or which tiny details will make bugger all difference on the day. You’ve probably never done this before. I have. Borrow my brain.

What do you wish couples knew about you before they reached out?

You don’t have to be “fun, cool, colourful, confident or photogenic”. I know it’s really easy to look through a photographer’s portfolio and think, “Oh, but those people are clearly GOOD at this. We’d be awkward as fuck.” They’re not professional wedding-havers. They’re just people. Loads of them told me before their wedding that they hated having their photo taken. Some were anxious about it. Some thought they weren’t photogenic. Some were worried their wedding wouldn’t look as good as the ones they’d seen online. You are seeing the result, not how confident somebody felt before I took the photo. So please don’t wait until you think you’re “cool enough” before getting in touch. You already are baby!