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Wedding invitations are a mission-critical part of the wedding planning process. Not only do they serve as the official announcement of the wedding, but they also set the tone for the event and give guests a taste of what's to come on your wedding day. While traditional wedding invitation wording is always appropriate and timeless (whatever that means), there's something to be said for unique wedding invitation wording — little bit of creativity and personalization goes a long way. If you're looking for inspiration to help you add a unique twist to your wedding invitations, here are some ideas for unconventional invitation wording that will surely make a statement.
Tell a story
One way to make your wedding invitations stand out is to tell a story through the wording. This could be the story of how you met, your love story, or even a fun anecdote about your relationship. This approach adds a hint of a personal touch and gives guests a glimpse into your relationship. For example:
“Once upon a time, in a land far, far away, two people met and fell in love. And now, they're getting married! Please join [partner and partner] as they tie the knot on [wedding date] at [wedding venue].”
Use poetry or song lyrics
Poetry and song lyrics can be a beautiful and romantic way to express your love and set the tone for your wedding. Choose a poem or lyrics that are meaningful to you and your partner, and incorporate them into your unique invitation wording. For example:
“You are my everything, my heart and soul. And on [wedding date], I'll make you my forever whole.
Please join us as we exchange our vows and start our journey as husband and wife.”
Go casual
If you're having a more laid-back, casual wedding, consider using invitation wording that reflects that vibe to your guests. Use a more casual tone and language, and feel free to include any quirks or inside jokes that are unique to you and your partner.
Casual wording can also be a great fit for beach weddings, gamer weddings, or destination weddings.
For example:
“Hey there! We're getting hitched and we'd love for you to join us. No need to get fancy – just come as you are and let's celebrate our love. [partner and partner] are getting married on [wedding date] at [wedding venue].”
Incorporate cultural traditions in your unique wedding invitation wording
If you and your partner come from different cultural backgrounds, consider incorporating traditional wedding invitation wording from one or both cultures into your invitations. This is a great way to honor your heritage and make your invitations more meaningful and personal. For example:
“With great joy, [partner's parents] and [partner's parents] invite you to witness the marriage of their children, [partner] and [partner], on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]. Please join us in celebrating this special union as we blend our cultures and traditions.”
Be funny
If you and your partner have a great sense of humor, why not inject a little bit of wit into your wedding invitations? Whether it's a clever play on words or a funny inside joke, a touch of humor can add personality and make your invitations more memorable. Just be sure to strike the right balance and make sure the humor is appropriate for all of your guests. For example:
“Attention all humans! [partner] and [partner] are finally tying the knot and you're all invited to the party. Come one, come all to witness the union of these two lovebirds on [wedding date] at [wedding venue].”
Use non-traditional titles
Instead of using traditional titles like “Mr.” and “Mrs.” or “Doctor” and “Professor,” consider using more personalized titles that reflect your personalities and your relationship to the guest… of course a gender-neutral title like Mx is a great place to start (pronounced MIX), but you could even go for fun titles like Captain Amazingbutt, Sargent Sweetbooty, or John Doe, VP of The Electric Slide.
Use gender-neutral language in your unique wedding invitation wording
Speaking of gender-neutral titles like Mx, in recent years, there has been a push for more inclusive and gender-neutral language in various aspects of life, including wedding invitations. If you and your partner are looking for a way to make your invitations more inclusive and welcoming to guests of all identities, here are a few examples of gender-neutral invitation wording:
- “Love is love, and [partner] and [partner] are getting married! Please join us as we celebrate our love and commitment to each other on [wedding date] at [wedding venue].”
- “Two hearts are becoming one on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]. Please join us as we exchange vows and celebrate our love as [partner] and [partner].”
- “We're thrilled to announce that we're getting married! Please join us as we celebrate our love and commitment to each other on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]. All are welcome to join us in celebrating [partner] and [partner].”
- “Join us as we celebrate the union of [partner] and [partner] on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]. No matter who you love, all are welcome to join us in celebrating our love and commitment to each other.”
- “Love knows no bounds, and on [wedding date] at [wedding venue], [partner] and [partner] will be tying the knot. Please join us in celebrating our love and commitment to each other, no matter your gender identity or sexual orientation.”
Of course every couple is different and what works for one may not work for another. The most important thing is to choose wording that reflects your relationship and your values, and that makes all of your guests feel welcome and included.
Go historical with medieval wedding invitation wording!
If you and your partner are planning a medieval-themed wedding with a bit of elegance, incorporating a medieval vibe into your invitation wording can be a fun and unique way to set the tone for your big day. Fonts will definitely play an important role in conveying this wedding theme, but wording is key.
Here are a few examples of medieval-themed wedding invitation wording to get your guests in the mood for your historical wedding style:
- “Hear ye, hear ye! [partner] and [partner] are getting married and you are cordially invited to join them on [wedding date] at [wedding venue] to celebrate their love and commitment to each other. Come one, come all, and be a part of this grand celebration.”
- “On [wedding date] at [wedding venue], [partner] and [partner] will be joined in marriage. Please join us as we celebrate this joyous occasion and the start of their lives together. All knights and ladies are welcome to attend.”
- “We, [partner] and [partner], cordially invite you to join us on [wedding date] at [wedding venue] as we exchange vows and celebrate the start of our lives together. Come one, come all, and be a part of this grand medieval celebration.”
- “Join us, [partner] and [partner], as we celebrate our love and commitment to each other in grand medieval style on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]. All knights and ladies are welcome to attend and be a part of this joyous occasion.”
- “Hear ye, hear ye! [partner] and [partner] are getting married and you are cordially invited to join them on [wedding date] at [wedding venue] to witness their vows and celebrate their love. Come one, come all, and be a part of this grand medieval celebration.”
By using medieval-themed language and imagery in your invitation wording, you can transport your guests back in time and set the stage for a truly unique and memorable wedding.
What about unique wedding invitation wording if the couple is hosting?
If you and your partner are hosting your own wedding, there are a few key things to include in your invitation wording to make it clear that you are the hosts. Here are a few examples of wedding invitation wording for a couple who is hosting their own wedding:
- “We, [partner] and [partner], together with our families, invite you to join us as we exchange vows and celebrate our love on [wedding date] at [wedding venue].”
- “Join us, [partner] and [partner], as we celebrate the start of our lives together on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]. We are excited to host our own wedding and can't wait to share this special day with you.”
- “With joy and excitement, [partner] and [partner] invite you to join us as we exchange vows and celebrate our love on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]. As hosts of our own wedding, we can't wait to share this special day with you.”
- “We, [partner] and [partner], are thrilled to announce that we are getting married on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]! Please join us as we celebrate our love and commitment to each other, and as we host our own wedding.”
- “Please join us, [partner] and [partner], as we celebrate the start of our lives together on [wedding date] at [wedding venue]. We are excited to host our own wedding and can't wait to share this special day with you.”
It's important to make it clear that you are the hosts of your own wedding, as this helps set the tone for the event and lets guests know what to expect. By including this information in your invitation wording, you can ensure that your guests know who to thank for the invitation and who to contact with any questions or concerns.
As an experiment, this post was written with the assistance of ChatGPT. We welcome our robot overlords.
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Written with the help of chatGTP! No wonder it seemed so repetitive. I actually did notice the writing was clunkier than these articles usually are before I got to that disclaimer.
Thanks for this feedback! I was curious to see if anyone would notice or care… as a publisher, I am F A S C I N A T E D by what’s happening with ChatGPT and how it might change my industry. Being able to experiment and get reader feedback is a super important part of the process, so thanks for being being a part of it!!