Category Archive

nonbinary / genderqueer

This is our collection of weddings where someone identifies as nonbinary or gender-queer. We celebrate all identities and have archives dedicated to transgender weddings, gay weddings, lesbian weddings, and bisexuality — as well as gender identity issues.

Queer vegan Jewish wedding on @offbeatbride

A femme and a suit-wearing dreamboat have a must-see vegan Jewish wedding

“Tambourines. Fireball whiskey. Surprise crash by Daniel Kahn. Re-writing hetero Zionist wedding songs to be homo and diasporic.” This pair celebrates their non-gendered and gendered choices alike, as they were all about their own authenticity. Don’t miss the handmade skirt that made us swoon, the amazing rustic decor, beautifully chosen and customized Jewish traditions, and so so so much love in every photo.

Disney Up wedding on @offbeatbride

Teukie & Sky’s Up-themed wedding plays with gender-neutral fashion, ice cream, and lots of Disney magic

This genderqueer couple may have had lots of trouble finding the perfect outfits for their colorful and magical Disney wedding, but it was all worth it in the end. Just wait until you see their amazing outfits, awesome hair colors, gorgeous petal toss recessional, and lots of Up-themed wedding details like balloons and personalized mailbox.

Wedding elevator pose on @offbeatbride

You’ll fall so hard for Nicole & Asher’s free expression, red dress, totally non-conforming wedding

The theme to this wedding was “freedom of expression.” These two had to overcome many obstacles from society in regards to orientations, identities, and professions. Freedom to express themselves was the top priority. You’ll definitely want to see the red dress, awesomely dapper suit, 1000 cranes at the BBQ reception, and super personalized and intimate touches everywhere.

mx and mx pillow on offbeat bride alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)

The rise of gender-neutral wedding wording like Mx, Nearlyweds, and Bachelorex parties

Weddings aren’t a strictly gendered thing, as all of us reading Offbeat Bride are like aware of… but many of the words around weddings and marriage are very gendered.

Even if you’re having a completely gender-neutral wedding, it’s really hard to talk about it without using gendered verbiage. But I’ve tried to find some ways around that..