One bride named Sarah got asked this question so many times, that she finally just took this self portrait as an easy answer. < Previous Post Non-Traditional Wedding Cakes Next Post > Sarah’s green budget wedding in St. Louis About the Author: Ariel @arielmstallings Author of three editions of the Offbeat Bride book and From Shitshow To Afterglow, Ariel Meadow Stallings is the publisher of all the Offbeat Empire web properties. She lives in Seattle with her son, and if she's not writing or scrolling, chances are good that she's dancing or happy-crying. To follow her latest work, follow @arielmstallings.