One bride named Sarah got asked this question so many times, that she finally just took this self portrait as an easy answer. < Previous Post Non-Traditional Wedding Cakes Next Post > Sarah’s green budget wedding in St. Louis About the Author: Ariel @arielmstallings Author of three editions of the Offbeat Bride book and its sequel (From Shitshow To Afterglow, the ultimate offbeat breakup book) Ariel Meadow Stallings is the publisher of all the Offbeat Empire web properties. She lives in Seattle with her son. To read her latest writing, follow @arielist on Medium.