One of the most interesting things I'm already learning from my Reader Survey that two-thirds of you haven't read my book, Offbeat Bride: Creative Alternatives For Independent Brides!
I've been wondering why I get so many advice questions asking me things like “Should we just have two weddings?” (it's in the book) and “How can gently give my guests suggestions for how to dress?” (it's in the book) and “Do other people deal with post-wedding depression?” (it's in the book!) … and now I know.
It's a painful irony for me as an author: I set up offbeatwed.com to promote Offbeat Bride, and now it turns out that almost 70% of my readers opt for the marketing materials instead of the book itself! Ack. Despite having Offbeat Bride‘s cover and sale link on every page on the site, I'm doing something very wrong.
I'm assuming you're all thinking “Why read the book when I've got the website?” and so I now present to you:
Top 10 Reasons You Should Read Offbeat Bride The Book, And Not Just offbeatwed.com:
- You want to know what one word can diffuse most family drama (page 123)
- You want to know how to save money by starting your own wedding co-op (page 77)
- You're looking for the whole story about why my mom was talking about “Humanure” the night before our wedding (page 141)
- Because you want to know the one question you should ask anyone you're considering as a wedding photographer (page 151)
- You want to know how to deal with stoners at your wedding reception (page 179)
- You want to read the world's only wedding book that includes the phrase “ass-fucking”
- You need to know what information you should put on your “wedsite” (page 37)
- You want to know what one article of wedding attire you should never drive in (page 49)
- You're curious about post-wedding depression and the frustration of “getting wifed” (page 202)
- Because you love this website and you want to express your thanks to the woman who makes it happen. 🙂
…Did I convince you? If so, the book is on sale! Alternately, you could add the book to your Christmas wishlist. Since it's only $11 on Amazon, it makes for an inexpensive gift that's easy to give (and receive).
I'll also open this question up to the one-third of you who've read the book: Why do YOU think offbeatwed.com readers should read Offbeat Bride the book?
Comments on 10 reasons you need to read Offbeat Bride the book, and not just offbeatwed.com
I haven’t bought the book… yet. But as soon as the actual engagement comes (his idea), I won’t feel odd about buying official wedding stuff (He’s okay with my “research” but might freak out about “official” planning).
This book is definitely on the must-have list, especially because I want to make sure and support one of my favorite internet sites! But I just wanted to point out that some of your readers are technically in the pre-planning stages here, so maybe that’s why you haven’t got all of us on the book-train yet?
I fully intend to read the book, for months now! Sadly, I’m still about 25th in the hold line at the Seattle Public Library. 🙁 Someone feeling particularly philanthopic should donate more copies! ^_^
On the plus side for you though, Ariel, this means I’m on the verge of finding something to sell on eBay so I can justify just buying my own copy. Ha!
Because it’s not just a wedding book. It’s also a hilarious and well-written memoir about an indie wedding. And the internet, while awesome, is not a substitute for the printed word.
Weddings are an addiction of mine. And, honestly, I don’t want to freak out my boyfriend by buying a wedding book! I fully intend to buy it should I ever get engaged. 😀 Until then, I’m going to keep reading this site to feed my hunger!
The only reason I haven’t read the book is…I’m not actually planning a wedding. I just like the blog a lot!
But, as SOON as I get engaged (if it ever happens), I will buy it!
I know for a fact that your book is sitting under my Christmas tree! I can’t wait until December 25th!!
i’m with Becca and Amanda and all the others who don’t want to freak out their boyfriends. sure, i’ll totally buy the book if and when the time comes, but right now i’m just window shopping.
i also like seeing the design aspect and visual aesthetic of weddings. and the site is a nice pick-me-up: pictures and stories of other people who are finding love, celebrating love and enjoying their lives with loved ones make me happy. so that’s my defense…
as far as reasons for buying the book… it’s like most movies based on books/novels; you just know the book is more detailed. and really, almost everything is better in book form!
I bought it to express thanks and give back to Ariel for the awesomeness of OBB and I wanted to know more about her own wedding. People should read it because it’s damn funny and like Baxter said it’s not just a wedding book it’s a great memoir.
I can’t afford to buy any books, (seriously, broke, even $11 is too much), so I requested that my local library of ye old Decatur, Georgia buy a copy. They bought 9 copies for the whole library system!
I’ve just borrowed one of them and am thoroughly enjoying reading it. I’ve been watching Offbeat Bride online for awhile, and it is totally worth reading the book, there is a lot in there you don’t get from the website, awesome as the site is.
Anyhow, I’ll buy a copy one day when I’m not totally broke anymore 🙂
Its more portable that your laptop, and people ask you about it on the train.
support the woman that supports you!
and, of course, the book is fantastic.
I bought the book before I discovered the site; one of my friends is mentioned in it (although she’s not on the list in the back, bummer).
Baxter, commenter #3, said it well. And, well, Ariel’s Top 10 Reasons is a great incentive!
If I weren’t dirt poor, I’d buy a copy and read it it! The only reason I haven’t is because I have no money, and none of my friends are cool enough to own a copy a could borrow!
And my library doesn’t have a copy either
I bought it because it is seriously a gazillion times better than The Knot Guide to Weddings.
You should buy the book so that you can be the awesome friend who has the one book people want to borrow!
Honestly, I think I’d re-read it when planning any sort of party.
Because it’s published by Seal Press and they are just as awesome as Ariel!
(Seriously, check it out!: http://www.sealpress.com/home.php)
It’s on my Christmas list! The first request for my lovely sister/maid of honor.
I bought the book shortly after joining OBT. It really is such a good resource…OBT is like a supplement to the book. Yes they’re good separate, but together they’re unbeatable ^_^
Oh, the book is not expensive! And it is so much better to buy a BOOK and support a WRITER (I say as a writer myself) than to spring for that fancy latte three times a week (or insert your own personal splurge item).
Just buy the damn book! You won’t regret it. It is hilarious and helpful and even though I’m on OBT and read the site on my feed reader daily, I still turn back to the book to remind myself the answer to certain questions. And it is a great memoir and it’s an easy way to support Ariel who has given us this outstanding community. It’s not like she’s asking for donations; this is a writer asking us to read her actual work, not, as she says, the marketing for it, which has grown into much more, but still….read the damn book! Buy a copy for whoever catches the bouquet at your wedding so she can start her planning off right if she follows the silly tradition of being the next in line!
You’re right, absolutely right. I’m buying today, OK?!
wow. i suck. i plan to buy the book today. i kept putting it off because i am lazy. i definitely plan to support the fantastic person that created this website. i only imagine the book is great as well! Thanks for the push, Ariel!!
Ok so I read the blog every day before the wedding, and still check up daily after… and didn’t buy it because I too was broke. But just reading this on Amazon makes me want it for this very question…
“this book sees couples through the wedding process from ideas on how to announce their engagement to answering the question, â€œSo, howâ€™s married life?â€ and everything in between.”
I’m so tired of people asking how married life is and I want to know how to answer them (do they really want to know it’s hard f*&%ing work!?)
Oh, I feel terrible. Eventhough I am getting married in less than a month I will still buy it because I want to support you, Ariel!!! If it means anything, I can’t get the book in South Korea. Amazon doesn’t ship here and my family is tired of sending me packages (I’ve been here for over 3 years and they’re over it) 🙁
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Buy the book because it supports Ariel and all the work she does to maintain this awesome site. And – DUH – it’s a great read! Buy it as a gift for any bride…it’ll be a welcome relief from the godawful wedding mags she’s probably been reading.
I found OBT through the book and omg, thank the lord! I feel totally enlightened and excited by everyones ideas and overall awesomeness.
I also have purchased an additional copy for an offbeat friend of mine who got engaged.
Props to the girl who put in the library request!
I found the website and told another engaged friend about it. She bought the book, had an awesome wedding, then sent me the book as a thank-you present for doing her invitations. 3 weeks before my wedding my good friend/MC got engaged so I gave him the book as a thank-you present.
He’s been charged with passing it on as well–on the inside cover we’ve written our names, wedding dates, and one piece of advice. I hope it makes its way around and bring happiness to everyone it encounters!
It’s the best bridal book out there. If you are not into the wedding-industrial-complex and want to stay sane, this is the book for you! I bought three copies-one to give to my mom after we got engaged (so she would understand where I was coming from. I wrote a sappy note on the inside cover so she would keep it in her collection for years to come :-), one for my fiance, and one for myself (that I keep giving to brides to borrow).
The book made me laugh and gave me the confidence to do what I wanted to do because no matter what decisions I made, I would “end up pissing someone off”. That’s the best advice ever (and very true, I found out). The second best piece of advice is that you will have a bridal freakout at some point and how to deal with it. I didn’t end up with a completely off beat wedding, but I did change up a lot of traditional things and added some of my own flair and this book made me feel that that was okay and that I wasn’t making this “terrible mistake that people will take about for years.” I am happy to say that I didn’t cave into anything that was opposite of what we wanted.
So if you want a straight forward, to the point book,on how to get through the wedding planning and all the drama that goes with it, please read this book. It will put you in a good mood, get your creative juices flowing (has great ideas), allows you to handle stress better, and make the whole wind whirl experience better.
And she NEVER once says you “have to have/do this”. That’s refreshing!!
You should read the book because it is super easy to read and way more entertaining than any other wedding literature you’ll find!
Buy the book FOR YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS. Seriously–if your peeps are like mine and generally liberal but puzzled by your insistance that bouquets and white dresses aren’t actually necessary for weddings, this book will SAVE YOUR BUTT. My mom ended up reading it -out loud- to my dad! And then called me up with more offbeat ideas than I’d come up with on my own!
I can’t recommend this enough. By giving this book to your friends and family, they will get some good belly laughs, and then they will be way, way more supportive of your wedding than they otherwise might.
Also they just might be relieved that you’re not having an underwater scuba wedding.
Unless you -are- having an underwater scuba wedding, in which case you DEFINITELY want this book, which has some suggestions for family harmony in that situation too.
Hey, Elena? I’m going to be visiting your country in February. Do you want a random stranger to ferry a book to the right continent? Even if you’re nowhere near where I’ll be staying, in-country mailing has got to be more reasonable than international… right?
I’ve read the book, but I always thought that the OBB blog fulfills kind of a different purpose than the book. The website doesn’t make me want the book because it kind of stands alone, if that makes sense. I think it’s two different audiences. There’s a culture of people who would rather just get this kind of info online.
The book is more than just a wedding planning book. It is a memoir too, filled with plenty of wicked advice that has been tested! I think that reading the book gives a bit more insight to the personal posts on the site. I get that people only want to get stuff online, but there’s something about the book that you just can’t get from the site. But that’s just me 🙂
I’ve read the book. Not only is it a witty, well-written memoir, but it also provides really good commentary on issues like feminism and consumerism.
Like someone said in a previous comment, it’s really not that expensive. If you can afford to eat fast food a couple of times a week, then you can afford to buy the book.
A lot of people prefer the instantaneousness of the internet. It’s one of the reasons why the number of readers in America decreases every year. I would like to think that OBB.com readers are a little different, but we’ll see.
I want to buy it but the bookstore is always out of copies and I’m too shy to ask them to special order one.
I found the book while dicking around on Amazon shortly after getting engaged and I ordered it from my store (we didn’t carry it then, but we do now!). I sought out the site afterwards.
The book was ABSOLUTELY a required read for me. It is the thing that got my wheels a-cranking. I already knew in theory that J and I could have any kind of day that we wanted, but what exactly did that MEAN (keep in mind this is the girl who thought it was the law to take your husband’s name, until I was 14 and met my friend’s mom who *gasp* kept her own name)!? I mean, sure, we can read as many profiles and see as much wedding porn as we want on the site, and it all is very interesting and helpful, but my favorite part about the book was reading about Ariel’s wedding experience from beginning to end. From engagement to planning to wedding to newlyweds.
Yes. Everyone needs to read it. So says me.
If I may say, I’d recommend ordering it from a bookstore that doesn’t carry it. You’ll pay the list price, which is something like $13? But it may mean that the buyers for that bookstore consider carrying the book on a regular basis. That way more people will happen upon it, when they are looking through that sea of pastel pink and blue blahhhhh that is the current state of most bookstore wedding sections.
I haven’t bought the book simply because it’s not available in Indonesia, shipping often costs more than the book itself 🙁 but I promise I’ll get myself a copy somehow …
My own personal reasons, having read it, are: because it gives you the warm fuzzies about getting married in your own way and to your own awesome guy or gal, causes you to go “hmm” in a thoughtful way, and it does make you burst out loud laughing 🙂 No better way to brighten up a day than warm fuzzies, thoughtfulness, and laughter, in my opinion…
I am also in the “not engaged yet, don’t want to freak out the boyfriend” camp as well. He already IS freaked out about this whole marriage idea, I don’t want to add any more to that! The blog feels more subtle, and even then for the longest time I was kind of nervous about reading it if he was around. I definitely will buy it and read it when the time comes. I’ve kind of used stuff I’ve learned from here to try and relieve some of his fears about what a wedding has to be, that it doesn’t have to be this big ordeal.
Yeup, another one of those “not engaged but I likes me some wedding porn!” girls. That’s me.
I fully intend to buy the book when the time comes.
Guess what! The website promoted the book for me. Someone recommended the website to me, and I am not waiting for my book to come to me via Amazon. It is my personal Christmas Present!!!!
Ditto (tritto?) on the not squicking the boyfriend-who-doesn’t-know-he’s-an-FH. He doesn’t know I read the site but a book would be hard to hide. Upon my honor as an future OBB, I vow (ha) to buy The Book when I become engaged.
A friend of mine told me about the website and then a few months into the wedding planning I bought the book … and LOVED it.
Also, it was a fabulous way to get my husband involved – at night before bed, i read aloud chapters to him and he loved it, too!
The BOOK made me take a deep breath about my BIGGEST concern for my wedding day… people “smoking” around my family ACK! Thanks Ariel!
Alright, you’ve convinced me! I’m buying the book…
The only reason I haven’t was to not freak out my partner, as is the reason others have evidently not bought the book yet, but I think he’s pretty use to me “researching” and showing him things on the site. 🙂
Speaking as one of the two-thirds, I haven’t picked up the book yet because–much as I love wedding porn, crafty ideas, and good advice–I’m nowhere near ready to get engaged yet. I guess you could say that I’m saving the book (and all that it holds) as a sort of present for myself whenever I do get that ring.
(You can bet I’ll be suggesting this book to any of my friends who might get engaged between now and then, though. *wink*)
I’m not engaged but I think it could potentially go that way in another year or so. I decided to buy it just now because I really want to support Ariel and that was the item that put me over for free shipping on Amazon. 🙂
I like the reading, I’ll just hide the book in my porn drawer where all of the other potentially embarassing-if-someone-found-it kind of things.
As Amazon does not ship to South Africa anymore , I thought I’d look on wantitall who are a SA branch of amazon (so to speak). The creeps are selling it for 30US$!!!! And that’s without the shipping to my neck of the woods. Boohoo 🙁
Can I buy the book in Australian shops or do I have to go online? (Not that I mind, just curious)
I’ve been job hunting for months, in the metro area with the highest unemployment rate in the US. My savings are gone. I’m at the point where I have to choose between healthcare and rent. My personal splurge item is last week I bought a $0.50 bottle of fake lime juice.
Times are tough. My fiance and I can’t afford a marriage license, let alone a wedding in the traditional sense. That’s how I found this site – I know that our wedding will have to be very different from what the wedding industry leads us to expect, and I wanted to see how other people did that. But yeah, I can’t afford the book right now. I hope you understand.
I asked for it for my holiday gift from my future husband. I’m very excited to read it, even more so after reading your top ten!
It was actually a pain in the butt for me to get a copy! Apparently it is no where to be found in the UK (and i’m assuming this is a publisher thing…). So i had to order it from amazon, send it to my mom in the states and then have her send it to me (so the shipping wasn’t as ridiculous). Now I think of other OBB’s that are across the pond that don’t have a nice Mom willing to ship for them.
But I adore the book, read it in 2 days, and felt a thousand times better about the decisions we were making for OUR day.
I did find the site tho. I think I googled alternative weddings or something and as soon as I found it I knew I’d found my wedding planning home. So thank you for setting it up 🙂 x
Okay, okay, you got me – I am a long time reader and now I bought the book! I even bought the last one German Amazon had in stock *happy*.
And I can’t wait to read it, even though I am not planning to become engaged any time soon. My boyfriend is working while I am already on holiday – so only little freaking potential, because he does not see me reading all the time 😉
I am not on OBT yet, but I will be as soon as I get engaged – if that will be the case someday.
Thank you for the wonderful site, Ariel, I really enjoy it everyday! 🙂
I walked into the bookstore a while back and just picked this book up. Like many of you who’ve already posted, I’m not engaged yet, but like Brittany posted, my guy is pretty used to me going wedding planning nuts!
If you do need a reason to buy it, get it so you can pass it on to friends. Works for me.
You had me at ass-fucking! Seriously, I can’t wait to buy your book.
I just have to say that all the pre-engagement lurkers (and I’ll admit, that includes me) crack me up. As much as it pains me to admit it, apparently occasional wedding-lust really is a “woman thing”, even if your dream wedding leans more toward Wai Ching and Chucks instead of Monique Lhullier and Louboutins 😉
To get people to read the book more I suggest somehow including, as a part of the Offbeat blog, small teaser paragraphs from the book on different topics. This idea may not work as is but I think somehow including actual content, extracts, etc. from the book mixed in with the other blog content (and having a link to buy at each “from the book” blog post) could work. It really is a fantastic, fun and informative book and is not just for people planning weddings.
@KS: Allow me to offer a counterexample! My boyfriend keeps telling people we’re engaged even though we’re not planning to get married for three or four years, and recently he asked, “Are our colors still army green and lavender?” Then again, he likes trying on my perfume, so his gender identity may be called into question.
I was just “wifed” and as I look back on the hurricane that was planning my wedding (what’s up 5 months)
I can honestly say that the only wedding book purchase I should have made was Offbeat Bride.
ALL the other books and magazines out there gave me TERRIBLE anxiety and made me feel guilty over not having random items like his and her flip flops for the honeymoon.
I am another one of the countless ‘ladies-in-waiting’ … as I am not yet engaged, but can’t help all th wedding porn, ideas, support, and information the blog gives. As soon as the ring comes – so will the book purchase!
Plus – I can read blogs at work… but I couldn’t be caught reading a book in my cube!
yeah, like many of the other ladies on here im not engaged. i don’t even have a boyfriend. imagine going on a date and having him come back to your place only to spy wedding planning books?! the horror. its on par with single women who have a stash of baby clothes set aside for *someday*. i will definatley buy this book once i’m planning a wedding of my own.
@Ashley Gent: how weird – I just checked out amazon.co.uk, because right now they are often cheaper with the pound being so weak to the euro, and they had it on there…
I was actually convinced by this blog post, because I couldn’t really imagine what the book is really about – I feel I don’t need anyone to tell me how to plan a wedding, but if it’s a lot of story telling, I’m ordering it right now!
And I have another reason for ordering it:
funny shots of you reading the book on your wedding day increase your chances to get featured in the blog!
Because it will help you bond with all the other now and former offbeat brides in your life.
Because it has great stories not on the site.
Because it’s the reason this site exsists, and that should be reason enough.
the book was recommended by a friend. I went to 3 bookstores, and finally found one copy, bought it, read it in almost one sitting. It was pretty good. Gave me some good ideas. Quite annectotal. I think it would have been awesome if there had been some more stories about other offbeat weddings too. I guess I just liked it so much I wanted more…which is, I guess, what the site is for…hehehe
If there is a sequel…of someone else’s wedding since we all know Ariel and Andreas are 4ever…I would include that offbeat checklist you had on the blog a few months back. It rocked!
@Sam – that’s awesome 😀 I esp. like army green as a wedding color!
I’ve been so vocal for so long about not believing in marriage that a copy of your book laying around in the house will cause quite a stir. I’m working out how to surprise-propose to him myself while enjoying the beautiful pictures of others’ weddings. It’s done wonders for my absolute Wedding Fear, just seeing people who survived and had a great time.
I’ll buy the book as soon as we’re official!
I’m not engaged. I’m probably not getting married. My friend who IS getting married (and how I found this site) is not very off beat. Why did I buy the book? For the same reasons everyone else did – it’s a funny, true, heartfelt memoire from a creative woman who gives good advice.
What do I, as a non-engaged with a boyfriend, get from the OBBB (Off Beat Bride Book)? Lots of creative ideas on how to deal with family and loved ones who may have a hard time accepting your *other* non-traditional choices. Great ideas for party and event planning. Humor. And sometimes, the sense that my familial situation is *not* the most insane one.
I *love* the site (keep that weddin pron cumming!), but if you have $11, or a library membership (which you should, silly), then read the book. Your library doesn’t have it? Request it – they can loan it from another library or purchase their own copies.
Ariel, thanks for this post. 🙂
Considering all other bridal magazines/books make me want to barf, I will definitely be hoping for this under the Christmas tree this year 🙂
OFFBEAT BRIDE is the only “How-to” style wedding book I’ve read. It’s not one of those I’m-ashamed-to-even-have-flipped-through-it books. It helped me realize that “people like me” do get married – and we can do things our way! Thanks to Ariel for sharing her story – and advice.
My fiancee is now reading – and enjoying – it.
I found out about the website via the book (which I read in less than a week)!
Buy it! Read it!
I bought it out of respect for ariels work… your a gem xx
“Support the woman who supports you” – best reason ever. I am going to try and find the book now. Will get it as my Christmas present to myself!
I normally get my books from the library, but I had to purchase this book as soon as I saw it at the bookstore. It was right after I got engaged and was freaking out about all the pressure that came along with engagement. “Have you set the date yet?? Look at this big poofy white dress, isn’t it beautiful??”
It was a great read and made me feel better that I was not the only woman who has not dreamed about getting married her whole life. The book gave me confidence that I can have a wedding without a white dress, matching bridesmaids dresses, or tossing a bouquet. The website is great too, but reading the book is a must for all offbeat brides or soon-to-be offbeat brides.
i first met ariel online when i interviewed her for a BUST mag article i wrote on inexpensive, indie weddings, i think in 2006. i’ve read several of the other offbeat wedding books out there. ariel’s is the best, hands down. it’s also the funniest.
btw, even though i’ve had this book lying around the house for two years, my beau still asked me to marry him (and i didn’t think i was the marrying kind, nor was i hoping to be). i’m just saying… one little book isn’t going to ruin your relationship. just say it’s written by a friend of yours and you wanted to support the writer and she what her first book was all about. your bf or gf will understand.
The book is definitely a must-read! It is helpful, funny and eye-opening.
I found the website, then ordered the book, read the book, promptly forgot most of it, and continued to read the website. Your list has actually reminded me of bits that I should go back and find!
I’m one of those who didn’t read the book – I’m a passive reader (never commented up to now) at the blog and the forum (never posted, but had to sign in to read, obviously). The reason why I’m passive is the same reason why I haven’t bought the book. I’m one of those girls who said “I’ll never marry” (a scepticism I inherited from my mother who married twice, but for the alien’s police (don’t understand me wrong, the relationship was real)) since I was 12 and now I ended up (ended up sounds fatalistic, actually I’m really young and very happy about it) with a guy who’s perfect and I intend to spend my life with him. Now he’d love to marry me (rather sooner than later) and I started to google for reasons for and against marriage and to find out, if wedding/marriage and me can actually work out. And some day someone posted a link in a fashion community to a blog post and I started to read and have come back regularly since then. I’m still not sure if the concept of marrying and me are compatible, but at least I know now that there’s a way to make wedding and me compatible 🙂
I went out and bought the book today, as a direct result of reading that there is a reference to “ass-fucking” in the book!
Thanks for the great reminder of how important it is to support the artists we believe in. I know times are financially tough for some of us, but that’s exactly WHEN we need to make sure we continue to support the arts and demonstrate their critical value in our personal lives and communities. When all of this economic crisis finally hits rock bottom and businesses are closing down around us, I have to be able to look at myself in the mirror and say that I played even a very minor part in trying to help an artist I believe in to survive. I feel like such a fool for not ordering it sooner – now I’m just waiting for the postman to bring me joy.
ok ok i’ll buy it!
I’ll prolly have to order it in, cuz bookshops around here never have the books i want….. seriously, last three books i wanted i’ve had to wait two weeks for…
I went to Borders to buy it and they didn’t carry it! I was so close to the end of my wedding that I just skipped it. But I will buy a copy for future Off-Beat Brides so they don’t miss out!
It seems to me that if many brides are writing to you about post wedding depression, simply referring them to your book is a very cold, profit-driven response.
Whether you like it or not, your ‘promotional material’ has given birth to a community of brides who feel that you might actually care about these issues. With that comes a certain responsibility to respond to calls for help about particularly serious issues such as depression … whether it contributes to your profits or not.
Recent Bride, thanks for your comment. I really appreciate the level of concern you have for the health of my readers, and wanted to let you know that I’ve received exactly one email about post-wedding blues. I responded personally to the depressed advice-seeker, who was already seeing a counselor to deal with the issues.
As much as I like to think I’m able to help in little silly ways, I’m just a writer — absolutely not a therapist or certified in any way to deal with issues as serious as depression.
totally convinced. you and Ira Glass should get together and save every entrepreneur in the US
Just ordered my copy on Amazon now! I thought “support the woman who supports you” was the best reason! Being in NZ and getting the cheapo shipping rate I can expect it sometime in Feb hahaha. But still – exciting!!!
Expecting it to arrive from Amazon any day now! I’m so excited! Thank you for all your hard work and effort done on behalf of the offbeat! 😀
Like many others who stalk this blog, I'm nowhere near getting engaged – I just enjoy the voyeuristic pleasure of watching others get married. But the Offbeat Bride book is definitely at the top of my list if/when my boyfriend proposes!
Yes, you really should buy or borrow the book. I bought it awhile ago and devoured it a short time. I read a lot (and I mean A LOT) of wedding related publications. This book is really one of the very best. I'm so sick of seeing all the same old – same old crap and Ariel's book is refreshing, funny and so original. I seriously wish I had just one tiny bit of her talent for writing. If you consider yourself just a wee bit offbeat, you need this book.
I just stumbled upon this website today, and seeing all the great pictures and advice, I'm definitely going to order the book. I'm so tired of looking through conventional wedding books. Thank you for writing the book and making this site.
This definitely worked. I’m figuring out how to get to the nearest bookstore to buy it right now. 🙂 Sometimes it’s easy to forget that this started as a book because I really do get soooo many different tips from your website alone. Sorry about that!
Now, off to support something I care about!
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