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How to write wedding vows about quantum entanglement

Did you expect to cry about quantum entanglement today? Neither did we. But these wedding vows are so heartfelt that they needed their own post. Seriously, grab a box of tissues… these vows might just bring on the waterworks, while still managing to crack a smile, too. These two are clearly made for each other.

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Studio 54 meets Saltburn: A San Francisco dive bar wedding

Shot in a documentary, artistic, and emotionally rich style, the images from this celebration feel like stills from a queer indie film: gritty, glittery, and full of heart. Every frame captures the chaotic glam and intimate community vibe of the night, with a raw elegance that feels deeply personal rather than posed.

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This queer Madison wedding has the CUTEST first-look moment

Whoever said bigger is always better hasn’t seen Madi and Rysa’s queer Madison wedding in Wisconsin! But thanks to Samantha Waldron of Dutcher Photography, you can get a glimpse of the big love present at their tiny ceremony. If you’re thinking about a small wedding but are nervous to commit, the smiles on Madi and Rysa’s faces in these photos just might sway you.

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Joining Offbeat Wed’s vendor community is now about WAY more than directory listings

Running a wedding biz in 2025 is wild… That’s why Offbeat Wed’s vendor community is now becoming WAY more than a directory. We’re talking group coaching calls, AI-powered biz tools, and exclusive features — all included with your listing, and all catered to the unique needs of offbeat vendors.