Queer wedding fashion: Finding the perfect outfit for your lesbian wedding party

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Trending wedding fashion: Dressing the whole wedding party in suits.

The way we approach wedding parties is changing dramatically! Gone are the days of bridesmaids and groomsmen (or as some like to say, bridespeople and groomsfolk) in matching colors and similar cuts. Now marriers are opting to dress their wedding parties in mismatched bridesmaid dresses and varying outfits.

We love seeing newlyweds opt for outfits that make their wedding party feel comfortable and confident as they stand by their side at the altar. And we especially love seeing more snazzy suits trending in wedding fashion.

A while ago (or as some wedding TikTokers call it, President Bush era), bridesmaids in suits were seen as lesbian wedding party attire. This meant that if you wanted everyone to know you were gay as heck (WE LOVE GAY AS HECK!), you would don a suit amidst all the other bridesmaids in dresses. Today, lesbian bridesmaid outfits and lesbian wedding outfits aren't just exclusive to suits. Besides, we're proclaiming that clothing has no gender and suits are a great option for everyone, not just folks who identify as queer. They're also a fashionable option when considering non-binary wedding attire, too.

We've rounded up a few of our favorite wedding party suits that are a hit in the world of wedding fashion. Whether you're looking for lesbian bridesmaid outfits or want to give your wedding party non-dress options to choose from, these ‘fits will have your people looking good and feeling great up at the altar!

Let's check out these lesbian wedding party suits!

SuitShop is a size-inclusive online suiting retailer with men's and women's collections. Although many of these will link to women's suits, just know that SuitShop's got something perfectly suited for folks of all gender identities and all sizes. If you need to figure out your perfect suit size or tuxedo fit, check out SuitShop’s fit guide.

These burnt orange wedding party suits are pure fire

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Proof that bridesmaids in suits can eat it all up. Whew!

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These could be the perfect lesbian wedding outfit or non-binary wedding attire for a fall wedding, especially with an autumn-inspired boutonniere.

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You can't go wrong with a classic black suit and heels

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Give everyone in your wedding party the same black tuxedo outfit and see how they each make it their own. When you put bridesmaids in suits, their personality is bound to shine through! Plus, a classic black tuxedo outfit looks fine as heck as a lesbian wedding outfit, too.

If black suits aren't the vibe, charcoal suits are a trendy alt

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A charcoal suit complements most wedding color palettes! Plus, these could be great lesbian bridesmaid outfits if you're going for that baddie yet business chic look like the people on HBO's Succession.

Your whole bridal party will look like bosses in burgundy

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When has a burgundy suit ever done us dirty? The answer is never. We love this wine red lewk for a lesbian wedding party or as a suave gender-neutral look!

Consider brilliant blue bridesmaids in suits!

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We a love the color palette of blue lesbian bridesmaid outfits while the marrier pops in white!

Here's what the brilliant blue suit looks like on a real married person (person on the left). SuitShop wasn't kidding when they said brilliant blue. Are you seeing how this lesbian wedding outfit pops against those scenic mountains?

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Who says tuxedos are just for the masc-identifying folks?

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If you're having a white tie event, this sleek white tuxedo would make the perfect lesbian wedding party attire. Or if you're the marrier, it's a sexy and chic look for a gender-neutral fit (or as a lesbian wedding outfit)!

Go for green with these wedding party suits

One of our favorite things about SuitShop is that you can have your suit fitted to your body type, whether you're petite, broad, or anything in between. This means everyone in your wedding party can find lesbian bridesmaid outfits they absolutely love!

A light blue three-piece suit would level up any wedding party attire

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A vest just adds that extra layer of fancy. It's like taking wedding fashion from bougie to Bridgerton.

Whether your goal is to find non-binary wedding party attire, lesbian wedding party attire, or a lesbian wedding outfit, everyone is guaranteed to look smashing in a three-piece suit! Grab the jacket, vest, and pants, or mix and match to make it your own.

Dress your whole wedding party in SuitShop

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Find the best suit and tuxedo fit with the SuitShop fit guide.

SuitShop makes it mind-blowingly easy to coordinate your entire wedding party online! If you want your wedding party attire to be all suits, this is a great function. If you're going for the mismatched wedding party attire vibe, send the individual members over to SuitShop and let them pick out what makes them feel good. For folks trying to figure out the best fit, SuitShop has this nifty fit guide.

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That unisex fit tho … HAWT!

With size-inclusive options plus jackets and pants being sold separately, there's no doubt your wedding party will look confident, comfortable, and cool as heck in a SuitShop suit.

Psst…Offbeat Wed readers working with small wedding budgets should DEFINITELY check out SuitShop's Suits & Tuxedos on Sale for 35% off select closeout styles!

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