Usernames and the bridentity crisis
Running an online network, I get an interesting insight into the names that people (women, specifically) use for themselves online. And one of the many ways identity shifts are expressed are through usernames and avatars.
Processing hetero-normative, non-offbeat relationship diagram
I am just as queer as I always have been, but my current partnership appears totally hetero to an innocent bystander … this has subtly affected my expectations of what a relationship looks like.
Advice for a newlywed on her wedding night
What’s my advice to a virgin who describes herself as “Scaredy Pants” about having sex on her wedding night? Well, it comes to down to one thing: having sex with herself first.
My fiance won’t help me with wedding planning: Learning from partnership imbalances
Ariel answers the perennial question: “Why does it seem like all the wedding planning falls to me?”